TTC after 35

Hi, new here.

Hi!  My name is Melissa and I'm new to this forum.  I'm 38 years old (just turned in May), and just starting TTC #2.  I'm nervous about TTC this time because of my age.  My DH is also 38 (and is worried that *he's* too old lol).  We've only been trying for 1 month so far, it didn't happen last month, although we didn't try very hard (only DTD 1 time around my fertile period).  I have 1 beautiful daughter who is 19 months old.  I was 35 when I conceived her, 36 when I gave birth to her.  So yeah, I was already an AMA with her, and even though it hasn't been that long, I am still really worried that it might not happen again.  And just as further info, before I had her, I also had 1 pregnancy that ended in a missed miscarriage.  That was 3-4 months before she was conceived. 

 Question:  how often do you DTD around ovulation time?  Is there such a thing as "too much" DTD?  

 Have you heard any success stories of women in their late thirties getting pregnant?

Thanks so much and I look forward to getting to know you all!

Melissa

Me - 38 DH - 38 DD - 2 pregnancy

Re: Hi, new here.

  • Welcome!  There is a great bunch of ladies here and I think you'll come to enjoy them!  If you ask danieleandwayne, I'm sure that there is no such thing as "too much" DTD. :)

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     For timing - we try to get every other day the week before O, daily if we can.  Honestly, EOD is what ususally happens for us.

    There is a whole board for women that are pregnant over 35 on here - we are all hoping to follow our friends that "graduated" when they got their BFPs.  :)

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  • Welcome! I'm also a Melissa :-)

    If you want success stories, just check out the Pregnant after 35 board. Good Luck! 

    Me: 38, PCOS/ DH: 37

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  • Welcome - I'm fairly new to this board but it's a great one!
    Me 39 & suspected PCOS, DH 42. Went off BCP when we got married in 11/11, seriously TTC since 3/12.  Six cycles of clomid = BFNs.  Suspected endometriosis & HSG showed both tubes blocked.  Sept 2013 IVF 5D transfer of two perfect embryos = BFN.  Started acupuncture and taking time off to drop some pounds & get healthier before FET in April 2014.
  • Thank you for the information!  This month, I think we are definitely going to make more of an effort.  I use the CBEFM, so I'm thinking that we'll try and DTD every other day starting from  the "high" days, and then both "peak" days.  Fingers crossed!  I'm still only on CD2 though so I'm trying to put it out of my mind for the next couple of weeks. :)
    Me - 38 DH - 38 DD - 2 pregnancy
  • Thank you!  Nice to meet another Melissa. :)  I didn't know about that board, but I will definitely check it out!
    Me - 38 DH - 38 DD - 2 pregnancy
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    Thank you for the information!  This month, I think we are definitely going to make more of an effort.  I use the CBEFM, so I'm thinking that we'll try and DTD every other day starting from  the "high" days, and then both "peak" days.  Fingers crossed!  I'm still only on CD2 though so I'm trying to put it out of my mind for the next couple of weeks. :)

    One caution with basing everything around the CBEFM, I have had one month where I only got one high and then got my Peaks.  I had another month where I went straight from Low to Peak and skipped High altogether.  Based on what day of your cycle you ovulated last month, you may want to start DTD EOD about a week before that.  Good luck to you!!

    Me: 43 DH: 39 - AMA, DOR
    Mommy to Sami (IVF), Born 8.30.13
    Surprise non-assisted BFP - 12.29.2014, Beta 1 = 322, Beta 2 = 760
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  • Welcome! There's not a better bunch of gals on the bump! 
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  • Welcome, I'm new to the board too - but these ladies have been helpful and supportive.  There are a lot of women that have successful pregnancies in their late 30's - too be honest I'm counting on that  ;)

    Me 38 MH 41 - TTC since June 2010 - dx with Severe MFI. Straight to IVF with ICSI. IVF #1 - ER 06/13/12 - 9 Eggs Retrieved - 4 ICSI'd - only 2 fert. 06/15/12 - 2DT - 3 cell & 6 cell with fragmentation. Beta 06/29/12 - IVF #1 = BFN. 07/20/12 - WTF Appt -Told by our RE to quit IVF. Second Opinion from RE is good. IVF#2 - November 2012. Estradiol Pills Started 11/6. Stims start 11/16. ER 11/26 - 7 eggs retrieved - all mature. 4 fertilized with ICSI. ET 11/29 Transferred 3 embryos. Beta is 12/10. 1st Beta 81 2nd Beta 160 and 3rd beta 360!!! First U/S 12/21/12 - We saw one beautiful gest. sac. 2nd U/S is 01/04/2013 - H/B 183 02/05/13 - NT Scan - everything looks good and IT'S A BOY!  Aiden was born 08/20/2013.

    IVF #2 is in progress.  ER was 05/12/14 - 11 eggs retrieved, 8 fertilized with ICSI.  ET was 05/15/14 - we transferred 3 embryos as we did on the cycle my son was conceived.  We were able to freeze 3 embryos. Beta is scheduled for 05/26/14.  1st beta - 111.  2nd beta - 159 didn't double :( 3rd beta Friday 5/30) - not a lot of hope left. Beta # 3 is 247 - probably ectopic.  Beta # 4 is 813 - possibly vanishing multiple sydrome?  06/05/14 - 5w4days - first U/S - we see a gestational sac and yolk - still have hope!  06/17/14 - 7w1day - U/S and saw and heard the heartbeat - Finally!  06/27/14 - 8w4days - Baby and heartbeat look and sound great :)  EDD 02/01/14 and It's a boy!


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  • Thank you, that is good advice.  I do recall having some things like that happen with the monitor before (I used it for both of my previous pregnancies as well).  This last month, it gave me 9 high days which was kind of ridiculous!  I got my peak around day 18 last month so maybe we'll start around day 11 or 12 this month.  Thanks again!
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  • Welcome and best of luck.
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