so im not pregnant, and at this moment we are not ttc, but it seems to be getting closer. my huasband and i will be married a year on july second. also while i am thinking about it, i can not capitalize, type numbers, or do most punctuation. im on my cell phone, and i am unable to. i just wanted to say sorry before i forgot. anyway, so in a few days we will be married a year. we have been together for about three and a half. we currently live in a one bedroom apartment, so not ideal for having a child, but doable if needed. we dont intend on having a child here. we are looking to either purchase a house, which isnt going very far bc we have no credit, or to find at least a two bedroom house, renting of course. on fathers day my husband mentioned he wants us to try for a baby. he says in like the next six months. well that night i freaked out, without him noticing, of course. im kind of afraid of screwing up our future child. idk why exactly. we are not poor, by any means, cut we do cut it a little close sometimes. i know we can adjust as needed, but im nervous. i work in a deli at a grocery store, also as a cake decorator in the bakery. there is a lot of heavy lifting and chemicals that i use to clean and stuff. that makes me nervous at the same time. and we have two cats. both males, both fixed, both barely one yr old. i know there are a lot of things that i cant do with them, when i get pregnant. does anyone have advise, or tips? or general knowledge, lol. anything is helpful.