HI! I just started a facebook group for women who are, were or would like to be pregnant over 35. Anyone wanting to join here is the link:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/164860883646484/
I am just hoping to pull some women together who can support and encourage one another! Everyone welcome! Thanks!
Re: Facebook Group for Pregnant over 35!
**ticker warning**
I would never join a FB like this unless it was private and I'm not clear from your post whether or not this group is. Especially since this is such an emotional time for us and the last thing I'd want was for other people in my FB world to know ANYTHING about my TTC journey until/unless I was ready to tell those people.
Also, the last thing I would want to hear about is pregnancy stuff from the women who are already pregnant-- especially if they didn't have any of the obstacles women on this board tend to experience. FB is already rife with friends and acquaintances who are getting KU left and right, so often "by accident," that this board was one of the few escapes from all that.
But that's just my $0.02...
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Ladies- beware of this.
I was lurking on the PG>35 page and Benoitfan smartly pointed out the following "FYI - I just looked at the group. It is closed (ie. by invite only), but it IS NOT PRIVATE. Which means every post will show on the newsfeed and every one of your friends will see all your business about your pg. In order for that not to happen the group must be SECRET."
I'm guessing no one wants people to know that they are TTC and also, your friends don't want a play by play of your TTC efforts. That's just weird and gross.
TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
DE IVF #3 1/14 ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d
DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!
K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days
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I don''t trust facebook any further than I can throw it. Maybe that is just me and my Luddite fear of technology. Even if it were to be a "private" group, or whatever the fb terminology is, I don't trust that it would stay that way once fb has some sort of wholesale change.
Plus, I don't really see the need. You gals are great, and I don't see how facebook would enhance that.
PS: No offense to the original poster, but I think it is a little weird that someone who is brand new (and I think unknown to us?) is trying to get us to join a facebook group.
Oh well, Luddite + conspiracy theorist = me.
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!
This same thought occurred to me.
DD born 12.21.09, conceived w/ injects and IUI
TTC#2 since Nov 2011
BFP 2.6.12 m/c 6w5d | BFP 5.25.12 c/p
-Back to the RE-
3 medicated IUIs, all BFN
-Taking a break from treatment-
BFP 11.20.12 ~ EDD 7.28.13
My Chart
DD born 12.21.09, conceived w/ injects and IUI
TTC#2 since Nov 2011
BFP 2.6.12 m/c 6w5d | BFP 5.25.12 c/p
-Back to the RE-
3 medicated IUIs, all BFN
-Taking a break from treatment-
BFP 11.20.12 ~ EDD 7.28.13
My Chart
Yeah.