finally

samjoan11

the doctor finally called me and i got bad news my levels went from 1336 to 1069 but the babys heart rate is still 149 so im at a loss and confused. i go in tomorrow and get more blood work and on monday too. then on tuesday i go to get an ultra sound. i feel like i have done something wrong to make me lose the baby.

alr5k

First of all, don't blame yourself for anything. Just wait until you go back to the Dr.'s and hopefully everything will be ok. T&P with you!

Allycat11

I know it is hard to accept, but it is not your fault.  Too many women blame themselves.  I really struggled with that after my loss, but looking back, it was out of my control. 

samjoan11

i just dont understand how the babys heart rate i so high yet my levels are saying im losing the baby and im not cramping bleeding nothing. i feel like im losing such a huge part of me

meganiobe

T&P's, hopefully things will go well on Monday and you will get more answers. Even if this ends in loss it's not your fault.

MoreThanABride

So sorry, that doesn't sound good.

meansbaby2013

Thoughts and prayers for you! You can't blame your self. Most m/c happen b/c of chromosomal abnormalities. I know it is difficult, but try not to worry. I hope everything goes well for you!