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i'm not pregnant - but does one announce on here?

MarylandWedMarylandWed member
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i am 9 dpo and don't get any sense that this is my month, so i'm not trying to be coy i can assure you. i just want to know, what happens when someone on here become KU? do they post it, or quietly go off into the sunset? i haven't been on here long and wouldn't want to offend/upset anyone, so i'd probably do the latter, but i was wondering the protocal?
Me:39 Dx LPD, Fibroid, AMA and all that goes with that. H:37 Dx low motility and low morphology. TTC since 3/12. Clomid 8/12 and 9/12: BFN. 11/12 on a break for Myomectomy sched. 11/26. Resume TTC early 2013.
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Re: i'm not pregnant - but does one announce on here?

  • Mrs.McIrishMrs.McIrish member

    If you are a regular poster who has been here for a "while", offering support to others etc, it is acceptable to post a "I'm PG" post.   Drive-bys are not welcomed.  Lurkers tend to think "hey I know the posters" because they have been reading for while but the question should be "does the board know me"?  If the board will have no idea who you are, you should go directly to PG >35.

    Hope that helps.

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  • gundy21gundy21 member

    Thanks for asking.

     If you become a regular - post for BFP.  If we know you and you have become part of the board, we are happy to share in your excitement and success.

    If you are lucky and get your BFP this month, know that we are happy for you, but move over to the PG>35 board to post your great news and they will welcome you with open arms.  And as we graduate from this board will be be happy to get to know you better over there.

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  • MarylandWedMarylandWed member

    Thanks! That's what I figured and I totally agree with that "policy". I am glad that for those who have been on a long time they are welcome to post BFPs because I am on the edge of my seat with some regulars and would really love to hear when they become pregnant and not just because they disappeared one day.

    Me:39 Dx LPD, Fibroid, AMA and all that goes with that. H:37 Dx low motility and low morphology. TTC since 3/12. Clomid 8/12 and 9/12: BFN. 11/12 on a break for Myomectomy sched. 11/26. Resume TTC early 2013.
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  • Snapdragon333Snapdragon333 member
    I've been wondering about this too.  That's kind of why I put off joining this forum.  Every month I have had so much hope that I would become pregnant and was worried that it would happen as soon as I joined here.  I didn't want to end up being a 'drive-by', which I now know is silly (after actively trying for 1 1/2 years).  At this point so I don't offend anyone, I might be more inclined to 'ride off into the sunset'...
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