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Dad's with experience?
Sorry to intrude, but I got to ask... I know during prego time the sexiness might change in your relationship. Just need some advise. How can I make the hubby attractive to me again. seems like this time around sexy time with me is kind of a turn off. I dont want to wear a sexy outfit cuz i feel ill look gross. he's a big heels guy.... So how can i spice it up with out my bump getting in the way? What would be attractive?
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Re: Dad's with experience?
"We like nothing better than buffing our Zygoma. And imagining a horny time traveling long overcoat purple scarf wearing super sleuth nordic legend fuck fantasy. Get to work on that, internet." Benedict Cumberbatch
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You shouldn't need to do anything special to get your husband to want you regardless of whether or not you look like the Michelin man. Just because you feel gross doesn't mean you look gross.
.... gotta love dad talk ...
Hire a hooker???
How would we know what YOUR man wants???
Too true.....
So wear heels in bed? Also, touch his penis. Guys seem to like that.
You should just hold off until you've given birth.
Word on the street is that you should give blowies while you're nursing.
Unable to even.
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You don't understand the appeal of Benedict Cumberbatch / think he's fug / don't know who he is? WATCH SHERLOCK. Until you do, your negative opinion of him will not be taken seriously.
In all seriouness, the only time I really wanted to get down with the wife was early in her second trimester. She was sick the whole first trimester, and being high risk the third is OUT!!
Second trimester was the time to hit it!!! We went down to Chicago and stayed at the Drake.
And seriously....a blowjob will ALWAYS do the trick...ALWAYS!!!!!
If he gave up at 19 weeks, what you gonna do when you're 40 weeks?
Done that, at 38 weeks ( 75lbs heavier than normal)..funny as hell
Because you're really a 12 year old boy.
Sorry that some messages are helpful and some....well, not so much.
You need to talk to your husband. Ask him what he thinks and feels and you have to be okay with that. If he says he doesn't want to hurt the baby or he feels it violates the pregnancy or whatever his reason is, then you have to respect that. He may feel differently next week or next month...but both of you are dealing with this and even though there are a million resources and message boards, no one can dictate how either of you feel or what you want from each other. Talk and listen...
My wife and I go back and forth with sex. First trimester she was a no-go with the morning sickness. Second trimester was okay for both of us, but we had to talk it out and this last trimester is tough. She feels fat and doesn't want to some days and other days she doesn't care....it's a toss up, but as long as we are communicating that's all I can ask for. It's a few months out of the rest of your marriage, you will both survive.
This is a fool proof method. It has never failed. At 9 months pregnant and at the advice of the doctor to have some sexy time to jump start labor,I was yelling at my DH to fork me and "take one for the team". I was 40 pounds heavier, had cankles, broken out skin, and my lady grooming skills were questionable to say the least. If touching the peen worked that night, it'll work every night.
Ha I remember my husband asking me if I missed some spots or if it was a new trend:).