Stress!

Jbosarge85

So my sister in law died yesterday in her sleep. And then today my husband's grandmother is in the hospital, my husband's cousin is married to his best friend and their baby who isn't even a year old is in the hospital PNICU unit with possible meningitis. It has been a crazy two days and last night my husband and I got in an argument that had me crying so hard I was coughing and choking and almost throwing up. I really hope my baby is ok, I've been having some strong cramps, but was told that unless I bled enough to fill a pad I shouldn't worry.....Any thoughts?

cowgirltu

I am really sorry all this is going on right now.  I have always been told that if stress strongly affected pregnancies, then third world countries would never have babies.  Are you bleeding or just cramping?  If your bleeding (more than just when you wipe) and cramps I would call my doc.  And as always, you can always call your doctor if you are really concerned.  T's & p's to everyone!

Jbosarge85

Thank you! And no I'm not bleeding at all, not even a little spotting, I haven't at all during the pregnancy. I was just wondering if it's only really a problem if you bleed or could just cramping signify a problem. I mean I know we aren't Dr. I'm not looking for a diagnosis just advice/opinions

cowgirltu

Cramping means that your uterus is growing and stretching.  My doc told me around 11-12 weeks to expect period like cramps to start and to not worry as long as there is no bleeding.