I have a question, hopefully someone will have an idea about this. Since IF is so time consuming, it is affecting my hours at work between appts and monitoring. I am wondering if anyone knows if IF could be considered an FMLA condition or a leave of absence type thing, or does it depend on the employer?
Re: IF and FMLA/LOA
Maybe talk to your HR rep and see if you can use sick time or can you work later on appointment days.
Me: 29, Mild DOR
DH: 31, SE mostly normal, 1st SE morph 5%, 2nd SE morph 15%...yeah!.
BFP July 2011, Natural MC August 2011.
3 cycles of 50mg Clomid = BFN
*New RE* Feb/Mar 2012 100 mg Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN
*3rd RE* April-June -Break Cycles begin prep for IVF by doing 2 Heparin injects daily....fun fun!
IVF #1 - ER 7/19, ET 7/24, 2 beautiful embies transferred. Beta 8/2 = BFN
*New RE...yes again* FET Nov 2012 with our lone ranger = BFFN
RE Suggests Trying IUI Again, Jan. 2013 IUI #2 =BFN
Feb. 2013 IUI #3 = BFP!!!, Beta #1 (15dpIUI) = 90, Beta #2 (17dpIUI) = 210, U/S Scheduled for 3/18
It was my understanding that your work has no say. If your work place is over 50 employees and you have been there for a year or more, you qualify. It is not up to your work to decide your medical necessity. In fact, places of employment can't even ask what condition it's for. The paperwork doesn't list your diagnosis. For all they know, it could be diabetes or a heart condition; anxiety or pregnancy. You are not obligated to tell them what condition it is either.
My HR rep asked what was wrong and what I needed the papers for and I literally said, "You can't ask me that. My doctor says it's a qualifying condition and will fax you in the papers."