Sorry for so many posts. So we where supposed
To go to Canada in the middle of July for vaca and when we told out doctor he said if it is not an important trip then he would not fly. I was really upset since we planned to go for couple months already. My husband agreed with him and now we are not going anymore. So I just don't understand why he would say it like that, when so many fly. He said why take any risks.
Thanx
Re: Flying
That's why this whole thing upsets me! I mean yeah the trip
Is not mandatory , but come on we planned this trip and now it is important to just have this time alone before baby comes. He said it is up to
You, but why go if not mandatory. Since my husband is
So much into listening to doctor he said we are not going. Makes me really
Upset, bc I know so many people who traveled. I like the doctor , but I don't like this part!
Here's all I can really say - you need to sit down and have a conversation with your husband about how, as parents, you need to be willing and able to do your own research on some things and learn to challenge things that don't sit well with you. Everyone on the planet has an opinion on everything, doctors included. Your doctor is giving you his PERSONAL opinion rather than one based in medical research (which says that flying is perfectly safe in a healthy pregnancy).
This will come up often about vaccines, breast feeding, when to start solids, do purees or finger food, cry it out, when/how to potty train. You need to start finding out what you as parents are comfortable with. Ask your husband to start now, with this trip, and do research on what others in the medical community feel is safe.
I will talk to my hubby today and see where that will go. I mean I don't know why I didn't stand up for what I know about flying.
Thank you
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