Transfer completed

reb259

So, sadly I qualified for the guarantee which means we did not have an A quality embryo. He graded them a B and a C.

RE said once my negative pregnancy comes back, they will issue a new password and I can start reviewing the database again.  Although I am trying to remain positive, I (we) are so over this and hope we can just get a refund. Not sure i have the strength to do thus again.

mtlaurel

I'm sorry. I'm sure you'll hear this a million times and not want to believe it, but it's true that even the less-than-best quality embryos have a chance. Hang in there.

AmCheri

When you're in the thick of it, it's impossible not to think about what you'll do next.  But try not to sweets.  If you can.  Honestly, I hate the grading system.  I understand the purpose, but I've seen so many women go on to have healthy pregnancies with embies that were something less than Grade A.  I'm super duper rooting for you.  This is the home stretch!  Hang in there :-)

Mrs.McIrish

Hugs. I will keep the faith for you. It's ok to just be sad today.

jessican08

I'm so sorry the quality wasn't what you were hoping for. I'm still holding out hope for these embies, though - as others have said, the grading isn't a guarantee of success or failure. ((HUGS))

Edwina.McDunnough

AmCheri:

When you're in the thick of it, it's impossible not to think about what you'll do next.  But try not to sweets.  If you can.  Honestly, I hate the grading system.  I understand the purpose, but I've seen so many women go on to have healthy pregnancies with embies that were something less than Grade A.  I'm super duper rooting for you.  This is the home stretch!  Hang in there :-)

This exactly. I am so glad you have made it so far, and also a bit relieved that you have some good options ahead of you. Rooting for you all the way and hoping you won't have to think about these options in the end. HUGS!!

lynn0926

Get some rest! You have had a long day and are probably emotionally spent! Hugs! I hope they snuggle in nice and tight!

amethystgrrl

I'm sorry this day isn't what we had all hoped it would be, but this fight is not over. We are all pulling for you and those little embryos. Giant squeezy hugs to you.

jlcrane78

Sending PPV your way. You know that I don't want to blow smoke either, but I am hoping you are one of the lucky ones that gets a super sticky BFP when you least expect. Good luck hun!

mm29

Edwina.McDunnough:

AmCheri:

When you're in the thick of it, it's impossible not to think about what you'll do next.  But try not to sweets.  If you can.  Honestly, I hate the grading system.  I understand the purpose, but I've seen so many women go on to have healthy pregnancies with embies that were something less than Grade A.  I'm super duper rooting for you.  This is the home stretch!  Hang in there :-)

This exactly. I am so glad you have made it so far, and also a bit relieved that you have some good options ahead of you. Rooting for you all the way and hoping you won't have to think about these options in the end. HUGS!!

What they said!  Get some rest. Snuggle in nice and tight little embies!!!

NMscubagirl

((hugs)) hang in there doll!

Nesting.Away

Crossing my fingers for good news. You just never can tell...

illinigal

Hoping you get that miracle you deserve.  Don't give up hope.

bubbas mama1

Ugh - I am so very sorry this cycle didn't go as you had hoped Regardless, I am still crossing my fingers for you!!

naybird

Big hugs.   Sorry the quality wasn't the best.  Now rest up and take care.  My fingers are crossed that at least one will hang on for the long ride.

Gregermis

((hugs))  Hope those embies prove stick their big fat tongues out at your RE in 9 months!

Mayan2011

Try not to give up hope just yet reb.  Many babies have come from less than perfect blasts.  I hope you join that group very shortly!

mdluv21

I am rooting for you!  Try not to give up hope, this FET both blasts we transferred were C. 

reb259

mdluv21:

I am rooting for you!  Try not to give up hope, this FET both blasts we transferred were C. 

Thank you for sharing!!  This really makes me feel better and gives me hope!

reb259

reb259:

mdluv21:

I am rooting for you!  Try not to give up hope, this FET both blasts we transferred were C. 

Thank you for sharing!!  This really makes me feel better and gives me hope!

i just read your siggy...i wm so sorry about your little boy. Huge hugs!!

vanessagorc

Hugs Reb, it's all so hard.

Just to let you know, i have never had an embyo of the highest grade...ever.

LaLe09

I know it's discouraging, but I'm holding out all hope for you that these embies stick around. Hang in there!!

Delta04

Thinking of you. 

theworms

Edwina.McDunnough:

AmCheri:

When you're in the thick of it, it's impossible not to think about what you'll do next.  But try not to sweets.  If you can.  Honestly, I hate the grading system.  I understand the purpose, but I've seen so many women go on to have healthy pregnancies with embies that were something less than Grade A.  I'm super duper rooting for you.  This is the home stretch!  Hang in there :-)

This exactly. I am so glad you have made it so far, and also a bit relieved that you have some good options ahead of you. Rooting for you all the way and hoping you won't have to think about these options in the end. HUGS!!

ditto

((HUGS))

and GL & PPV