I recently started back to work and have DS1 in daycare and DS2 with a sitter while I am at work. In the fall, my childcare situation will change and I may have to have a sitter watch both DS1 and DS2. I am worried though as DS2 is usually held for his naps by the sitter as he usually nurses to sleep with me. She is fine doing that, but I'm not sure how she will handle things with both boys.
I am contemplating either changing my work schedule so the sitter only has to watch DS2 or possibly moving DS1's daycare as they aren't very flexible with times. I love the daycare though and DS1 already has friends there.
The other thought I had was just doing some sleep training with DS2, via Sleep Lady Shuffle when he is 9 months so the sitter can just put him down for naps. But I feel very bad about doing this as I didn't do this with DS1 was almost 2.
Am I overthinking this or what seems to be the best choice? Should I trust that my sitter will adapt? She's a mom of 2 and has been with us for over 5 months. Or any other better suggestions? TIA!