Anyone else worry worry worry

kates_mommy

I feel like all i've done this pregnancy so far is worry. I worried for weeks about a miscarriage and now that I feel a little better about that I worry that something's wrong with the baby. I don't get an NT scan I don't think so I just have to wait until the 20 week a/s. I didn't worry I second with my first I don't feel like. Do you just worry more the 2nd time or is it the previous loss or am I just nuts? Just needed to vent. The cyst on my ovary does not help my anxiety either lol.

cowgirltu

Why dont you get the nt scan? Did you opt out of it?

kates_mommy

It costs extra at my OB I believe. It isn't covered by insurance. I don't even think i'm 100% sure what it is.

Optimus+Prime

Worrying is totally normal. Just try not to worry about worrying. You'll drive yourself nuts!

mrsgabus

kates_mommy:

I feel like all i've done this pregnancy so far is worry. I worried for weeks about a miscarriage and now that I feel a little better about that I worry that something's wrong with the baby. I don't get an NT scan I don't think so I just have to wait until the 20 week a/s. I didn't worry I second with my first I don't feel like. Do you just worry more the 2nd time or is it the previous loss or am I just nuts? Just needed to vent. The cyst on my ovary does not help my anxiety either lol.

I didnt worry at all with my first. I even remember telling every one right away and my MIL telling me to wait since I could have a misscarriage. I never thought about it, I just enjoyed my pregnancy.

Then came the miscarriage with baby#2 and thats when things changed. With Ds2 I was a mess, constantly poking him to make him move, getting scared if I didnt feel him or if I felt too good.

This time around I am truly worried but Im in a state where I can only do so much and I have to just try to stay calm, I still worry of course but I am trying not to.

eponine7682

I can completely relate. I think for me it has a lot to do with dealing with infertility. We worked so hard to get to where we are that it almost seems too good to be true at times and I fear that it will all be taken away.

I just try to keep in mind that today I am pregnant and I love my baby. 

bells039

I am so worried. I feel like my first utlrasound can't come fast enought. I just want to know this baby is ok. I think alot of my worry has to do with my DS being early. He was born around 34 weeks but I started having problems around 24.

dom20

I'm hoping it is normal, because I'm feeling the same way.  With DD I remember feeling nervous, but not to this extent.  Just praying that everything goes well for all of us!  

brookeshea

I am in the exact same boat. I didnt worry once with my 4 year old. Then I lost one last year in April and now with this one I worry constantly. I too have a cyst on my ovaries but they say not to worry. Just stay postive.

jolenes27

Same here. This is my second pregnancy, I had a miscarriage a couple years ago, so when I started spotting on week 5 I panicked. I litteraly went to the doctor every week to have an U/S just to make sure everything was fine. Now that im almost 12 weeks, the fear for m/s is almost gone, but I keep worring something might be wrong with my baby.  Cant wait for my NT scan.