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this may be an over-reaction but I'm still considering

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DH said we can send SS1 to his parents until DH comes home.  Its too hard for me to deal with moodiness and rude behavior.  Both of the boys have had a bad history of violence in their mother's home (which is why she doesn't have any custody).  So I get really uncomfortable when we have confrontations like this morning (there haven't been any issues so far).  Our backup "dad figures" have both been deployed.

I have never had both boys alone for a month.  Usually at least one of them goes somewhere. 

Grandparents are busy during the day but BIL owns a restaurant and he can help there.  BIL won't pay him but at least he will be occupied. 

together since 2006
full time stepmom to SS1 and SS2 since 2010
married since 2011

TTC since 7/2011 (no planned bc since 2008)
HSG 11/2011: one blocked tube
S/A 2/2012 and retest S/A 3/2012: normal
Bloodwork: normal
2nd HSG 5/2012: clear
Femara cycle 5mg #1 7/14/12 + IUI #1 7/23/12 = bfn
New RE appt 8/14/12
IVF #1 meds 8/30/12. ER 9/14/2012: 7 retrieved, 6 fertilized. ET 9/19/12: 1 perfect embryo 5dt.
Beta #1 BFP! 97
Beta #2 234
Beta #3 4937
ultrasound #1 heart beat 127
10/20/12 graduated!!!
EDD 6/7/12
Team PINK!!

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Re: this may be an over-reaction but I'm still considering

  • FutureMrsWittigFutureMrsWittig member
    When will DH be home?
    Mama of 2: one who grew in my womb, both who grow in my heart.
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  • xmaryrickxxmaryrickx member
    How old are SS's and why isn't the 18 yo getting a real job where you live?? Is he done high school now or does he have another year?
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  • lily_721lily_721 member

    Overreaction.

    DH will be home next month.  SS1 has a job for the summer; he is trying to find a second one as well to save as much money as possible.  He is still in high school so we have another year. 

    together since 2006
    full time stepmom to SS1 and SS2 since 2010
    married since 2011

    TTC since 7/2011 (no planned bc since 2008)
    HSG 11/2011: one blocked tube
    S/A 2/2012 and retest S/A 3/2012: normal
    Bloodwork: normal
    2nd HSG 5/2012: clear
    Femara cycle 5mg #1 7/14/12 + IUI #1 7/23/12 = bfn
    New RE appt 8/14/12
    IVF #1 meds 8/30/12. ER 9/14/2012: 7 retrieved, 6 fertilized. ET 9/19/12: 1 perfect embryo 5dt.
    Beta #1 BFP! 97
    Beta #2 234
    Beta #3 4937
    ultrasound #1 heart beat 127
    10/20/12 graduated!!!
    EDD 6/7/12
    Team PINK!!

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