My husband and I had been talking about adopting a pet (or two) before getting married. However, a few weeks before the wedding I found out I was pregnant so I wanted to wait until after the babies were born.
Well, hubby went to work Yesterday, came back home with two kittens and acted like it was no big deal. First of all, we haven't gotten anything done as far as preparing for the babies. We just started planing the nursery and have a handful or two of clothing (my shower is in July, but still...). Second (this is what really bothers me) even if I wasn't pregnant I feel like we should be making that kind of decision together.
Husband doesn't think it's a big deal apparently. I haven't said anything yet because I don't want to get into an argument that isn't worth fighting.
Should I just let is slide or should we converse?
PS. I don't think I have the heart to give the kittens back, so we'll be keeping them.