ok, I know this is a total noob post and there is stuff about it all over the web, but I want some real women perspectives on this. What are some of the things I can expect to happen during my first appointment? Like what kinds of tests and things, (especially baring in mind I've never even been to a gyno)? And what are some things I should bare in mind to talk to my doctor about since this will be the first time she's meeting, let alone treating me? I'm just curious so I'm not surprised I hate surprises,especially at the doctor, I'm not a fan of doctors so I don't really know how to handle this stuff.
also, my mother told me the fact that when I was born she was RH negative might be relevant, is this something I should tell my doc or even something that will affect me, I know it sounds dumb, but I don't even know what it means.
Thanx in advance,
Dani Z.
Re: 1st appointment info. (total noob ? I know)
It depends on the office. My experience the 1st time around...
Very first appointment I met with a nurse and I got a folder of pamphlets. It covered testing options for the baby, as well as a sheet of medicines I could take while pregnant and a pamphlet about cord blood donation. This was for first time mothers only.
The next appointment was around 10 weeks. Weighed, peed on a test strip, got a pap smear, internal/vaginal u/s and spoke with doctor. Then an order for bloodwork and peeing in a cup was given to me that I took to the lab to have like 4 vials of blood taken along with the pee sample.
Questions that you may want to discuss- what hospital do they deliver at, amount of weight you should gain during pregnancy, what symptoms you've been having? You may want to buy a book about pregnancy and go over the first couple of months to see if that raises any questions for you. You may also want to know how often you'll see your doctor, and how many u/s they perform.
Good luck.
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They'll do basic intake stuff:
-check your vitals (height, weight, blood pressure, temperature, etc)
-they'll ask about all your family health histories. from both mommy-to-be and daddy-to-be (so start gathering information from your parents if you aren't sure)
-since you haven't been to a gyno, they'll do a pelvic exam (very thorough, and kind uncomfortable, but nothing painful)
-doc will feel your uterus to *guess* how far along you are.
-DEPENDING ON YOUR OFFICE (please, do NOT get your hopes up since IDK how your OB works) you MIGHT get a dating ultrasound.
i may be forgetting some stuff, but the first appointment is never really TOO exciting.
My first appointment was long. I was transferred from my Reproductive Endocrinologist who had already confirmed my pregnancy.
Step 1: Intake. Vitals, pee in cup
Step 2: Sonogram. Normally this would be a dating ultrasound for most moms, but since my pregnancy had already been confirmed by my RE, it was unnecessary. However, I am pregnant with twins and baby A had been measuring behind at me previous exam so my RE requested the OB do a sonogram.
Step 3: Meet with OB in her office to talk about risks, options, health and delivery questions. Just a general getting to know you conversation. This was my first time seeing her.
Step 4: Breast and pelvic exam, cervical culture (not a PAP, as I had one in February).
Step 5: Blood draw
Step 6: Meet with financial coordinator
My 1st time around my 1st appointment was an intake. We went over family history, patient history, Q&A and I had a pap-smear. I had a dating ultrasound, too.
I just scheduled my first appointment for this pregnancy and it'll be the same, except no ultrasound.
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