Is it just me?

MrsTownsend8136

Every time I post anything I get snarky biitchy comments and very rarely a nice one. I am new and I dont know all the lingo and I am new to TTC so I dont know everything about it. I get really rude comments like I am an idiot. Really? I am trying to learn.

KdgTeacher

Each board on the site has its own distinct tone/culture.  It is highly highly highly encouraged that you lurk (read tons of posts and maybe don't respond) to get a feel for things go on the board.  Some are easier going while others are much more straight-forward.  One isn't better than the other, they are just different.

Keep in mind that tone is hard to read over the internet and common sense goes a loooooooooooooooong way.  Also, know your audience.  Look to see if your question was answered on the page already. 

I'd be very shocked to see you get rude comments for not knowing a lingo term.  One more thing, how you react to comments sets the tone for the rest of the thread.  If you go with the flow, learn from it, and move on things tend to work out OK. 

good luck

katienoe

I'm sorry you've gotten that reaction!  I am new myself and am still learning the acronyms and do's/don't on the threads.  It may be that people are trying to help show you the ropes but it's coming across snarky as written.  But don't worry, just keep posting and participating!  This is my first cycle, and really first full week participating on these boards and I do think I have learned alot along the way!  Hope to see you back soon!