Don't know what to do.

Dul17

today my baby daddy came over.

we were talking about the baby and stuff.

and he said he wanted to try and see if we could make things work between us for the baby. the thing is am not sure what to do.

i mean i have always been "in love" with him since i met him few years ago. but he never felt the same way. i don't what to do.. cuz am afraid of getting hurt and that he only wants to try cuz that the right thing to do.

i told him that would think about it...  

lilhockeygurlMOM

That's a tough situation. I don't want you to get hurt. He hasn't wanted to be with you until you became pregnant with his child so thats a huge red flag. I don't have the answer. I suggest making him prove himself to you, whatever that may be.

achase123

Dul17:

today my baby daddy came over.

we were talking about the baby and stuff.

and he said he wanted to try and see if we could make things work between us for the baby. the thing is am not sure what to do.

i mean i have always been "in love" with him since i met him few years ago. but he never felt the same way. i don't what to do.. cuz am afraid of getting hurt and that he only wants to try cuz that the right thing to do.

i told him that would think about it...  

Do you really want to be with someone who wants to try because it's "the right thing to do"? 

 IMO, the right thing to do is to show your child that you deserve more than that.  Just because you have a child together doesn't mean you should be together, ask many of these ladies on the board. 

Dul17

Thanks everyone for the advice.