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kinda freakin' out here....

Tiffany946Tiffany946
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I'm not sure what to do, I'm kinda freakin' out here....  We stopped all IF treatment after my last miscarriage and have decided to do domestic-infant adoption.. 4 miscarriages was just enough for me, I couldn't do it anymore.

So, we should have our home study approved by July 1st.  We are just waiting for our state child line clearances to come back.  Everything has been going soooo smoothly, until today....

My AF is like clock-work.  I never miss a cycle.  After counting my days this past weekend, I realized that I was 10 days late!  I POAS this morning and it was POSITIVE!!!  Digitally positive!  mmmmm, I haven't taken prenatals, been drinking a few beers here and there, and have mentally prepared to never become pregnant, ever.  And now when we are so excited about adoption, we're pregnant.  Surprise

We've been down this road 4 times now, and we are not counting on anything, so we wont' mention anything to our social worker until we are in the clear.  But I'm just so overwhelmed....

I just never thought this would happen to me...NEVER....  Not I'm not sure what to do! 
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  • Tiffany946Tiffany946
    I also don't know if I should call RE or my OBGYN?????   Advice???
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  • Nesting.AwayNesting.Away
    I had a surprise bfp in Dec. Call your RE and they should be able to take good care of you. Good luck, Sweetie.
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  • albjagalbjag member

    Congratulations- I hope everything goes well.  I'd call your RE for sure, for extra monitoring since they know your history.

    Good luck!

     

    Surprise BFP after 5 yrs of TTC
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  • GregermisGregermis member

    Call your RE!  Other girls I know who got surprise BFPs after stopping treatment or on long treatment breaks seemt to do that.  Good luck!  I hope it works out for you!

    TTC #1 Since 4/2010, Cycle 30
    Positive for HLA-B27, I'm a mutant :p
    Testing - Me ok, gluten issue? DH - borderline count, low motility
    4/28/11 IUI#1 = BFP!(5/25), EDD 2/2/12 - m/c 5w3d
    7/3, 7/31, 9/25 - IUI#2-4=BFN
    IVF#1 - 1 blast = BFP!! (12/30), EDD 9/9/12, confirmed c/p 4w2d
    FET#1 3/2/12 - 2 blasts =BFP!! EDD 11/18/12, us#1 = twins! Confirmed m/c 5w6d
    4/20-surprise BFP and another c/p 4w2d
    FET#2 7/16/12 - 2 blasts = BFN
    FET#3 8/20/12 - 1 blast - BFP!! Beta #1-2=177, 354
    1st u/s 5w6d, one beautiful little HB :), 2nd u/s 146bpm
    baby girl born 5/10/13

    TTC#2 since 12/17/2014, Cycle 8
    Repeat Testing...FSH=12, AMH=3.8, AFC=28. 
    IUI#5 5/10/15- c/p?
    IVF#2 8/19/15 - cancelled due to cysts
    IVF#2 take two 10/2015 - 5 blasts frozen
    FET#4 12/11/2015 - BFN - 4 blasts remaining
    FET#5 2/18/16 - BFP!!!  Beta1-3, 126, 250, 745!!

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    Tons of love and ((hugs)) to my IF sister NMscubagirl


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  • ellenchris0506ellenchris0506
    Tiffany!  OMG!  Could this finally be it for you Big SmileBig SmileBig SmileBig Smile
    Ellen & Chris 5/6/06
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    TTC Since 10/2007 with no luck and a 'go with the flow' attitude
    1/1010 FINALLY decided to have testing done, dx MFI
    7/2010 - DH starts Clomid to increase testosterone and hopefully sperm count
    10/2010 - Still low (but improved) sperm count.
    11/30/10 - IUI #1 and only = BFN
    February 2011 - IVF #1 w/ ICSI =
    Chemical PG (Beta 1: 10, Beta 2: 19, Beta 3: 17) :-(
    April 2011 - IVF #2 w/ ICSI = BFN :-(
    September 2011 - IVF #3 w/ ICSI = BFFN
    November 2011 - AMH level tested - .83 (normal for age range)
    February 2012 - IVF #4 w/ ICSI = (best response ever yet still) BFFN
    April 2012 - DNA testing - NORMAL, RE suggests cycling again with own eggs or using DE
    On Break indefinitely...not sure we can afford the emotional and financial roller coaster anymore.
    *PAIFW/SAIFW*
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  • jillychrisjillychris member
    I called my RE with my break.cycle bfp...figured she knew my history and would get me in for extra early monitoring. GL to you!!!
    2/11 Diagnosis: DOR-AMH .62, LPD and MFI-4% Morph
    IVF #1-July 2011 7/9/11-Started Stims
    7/20/11-ER:No eggs in 4/5 follicles. Left the 5th follie intact and converted to an IUI
    8/3/11-Beta #1=BFN,
    Nov, 2011 BFP #1=m/c at 7 wks 3 days
    11/11-AMH .47, IVF #2 March 2012...or not!! Surprise BFP on 2/19. Beta #1=161. Beta #2 305 Our little miracle girl is on her way! Due Oct 29, 2012
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