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Hello, I am inneed of help BIG TIME and dont know where to go!

Hello, I really need some help! I believe i might be pregnant but I am not sure. We had unprotected sex May 4th, and everything was great, until it was time for my monthly period the 29th, nothen. No symptoms at all, until the 28th. We have not had sex since the 4th. On the 28th, out of no where, I became extremely tired, to the point where I. feel asleep on my moms patio furniture. And the came headachs. The next day (29th) I woke up to severe cramps, I have not had such horrible cramping ever, breast slightly hurt, could not stop eating, it was crazy how much, and and lumps in my throat. Wensday was a better, until around 3 to 5 in the morning, I maybe peed 12 times, after drinking nothening... and I had slight nausea. And today, moody with nausea, and fatique. I probably take a nap a day, and I doze off anywhere. My period has been on cue this whole year, ive been a little stressed, but not badly. I took one pregnancy test yesterday, in the morning, and it came back negative right away. Should I test again, or go to planned parenthood? No insurence, so thats why planned parenthood. Any advice, concerns or input is welcome! :) Not too bloated, and boobs are normal besides slight pain. And my symptoms come and go? Very confusing! Thanks :)

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    if your test came out negative, then you are more than likely NOT pregnant.

    if you still have your doubts, go to PPH and do another test. the symptoms you described are the same for periods as they are for pregnancy. 

    also, your body could be going through the "pregnancy" motions because you're telling yourself that you're pregnant when you aren't. 

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    Hello, I really need some help! I believe i might be pregnant but I am not sure. We had unprotected sex May 4th, and everything was great, until it was time for my monthly period the 29th, nothen. No symptoms at all, until the 28th. We have not had sex since the 4th. On the 28th, out of no where, I became extremely tired, to the point where I. feel asleep on my moms patio furniture. And the came headachs. The next day (29th) I woke up to severe cramps, I have not had such horrible cramping ever, breast slightly hurt, could not stop eating, it was crazy how much, and and lumps in my throat. Wensday was a better, until around 3 to 5 in the morning, I maybe peed 12 times, after drinking nothening... and I had slight nausea. And today, moody with nausea, and fatique. I probably take a nap a day, and I doze off anywhere. My period has been on cue this whole year, ive been a little stressed, but not badly. I took one pregnancy test yesterday, in the morning, and it came back negative right away. Should I test again, or go to planned parenthood? No insurence, so thats why planned parenthood. Any advice, concerns or input is welcome! :) Not too bloated, and boobs are normal besides slight pain. And my symptoms come and go? Very confusing! Thanks :)

    If you only had sex on the fourth you should be testing positive but wait a week and test again.


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    hmonttyhmontty member

    You wouldn't get every symptom under the sun at one day past your missed period. Maybe the sore boobs...

    I'm sure you're fine.

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    imageMommyLuvsMe1210:

    if your test came out negative, then you are more than likely NOT pregnant.

    if you still have your doubts, go to PPH and do another test. the symptoms you described are the same for periods as they are for pregnancy. 

    also, your body could be going through the "pregnancy" motions because you're telling yourself that you're pregnant when you aren't. 

    All of this.  The general rule is test once a week until either AF arrives, you get a positive result or you hit cycle day 60. If you hit a 60 day cycle with no AF and no positive, most Dr.'s will see you then. 

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    There isn't anything else that we can really tell you. Could you be pregnant? Yep. Could you just have ovulated later than normal? Yep. All of the symptoms you are describing could easily be explained as PMS just as easily as pregnancy symptoms. What people will tell you is to keep testing one a week until you get to 60 days without a period and then call your doctor.

    In the future, if you want to avoid this then I would recommend a trip to planned parenthood to get some condoms or other birth control. 

    Good luck. 

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    If you really haven't had sex since the 4th you'd be approaching 6 weeks pregnant and that's plenty far along to turn a test positive.  My guess is that you've been fighting a bug and are convincing yourself you're pregnant to the point that you are feeling symptoms that aren't there.
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    You are definitely pregnant. Because I said so.
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    If you really haven't had sex since the 4th you'd be approaching 6 weeks pregnant and that's plenty far along to turn a test positive.  My guess is that you've been fighting a bug and are convincing yourself you're pregnant to the point that you are feeling symptoms that aren't there.

    This.  I peed on an IC at 5w4d just to see how dark the line was.  It was as dark as the control line.  If you haven't had sex since the 4th (and happened to O during that time frame), you'd be around 6 weeks and having very dark lines on a HPT.

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    imagemabenner1:
    You are definitely pregnant. Because I said so.

    Yep. Pregnant.






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    imageta78:

    imagemabenner1:
    You are definitely pregnant. Because I said so.

    Yep. Pregnant.

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    imageta78:

    imagemabenner1:
    You are definitely pregnant. Because I said so.

    Yep. Pregnant.

     

    Both of these made me lol.  I needed that.

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    imagemabenner1:
    You are definitely pregnant. Because I said so.

    Yes Thanks for the morning laugh Wink

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    imagehmontty:

    You wouldn't get every symptom under the sun at one day past your missed period. Maybe the sore boobs...

    I disagree.  I had most of these signs before I missed my period.  It is a difference between having them and noticing you have them.

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    If your period wasn't due until May 29, I highly doubt that you would have been fertile on the 4th.  Most luteal phases are around 14 days long, not 25.  Even if you ovulated on the 9th, that would still be a 20-day-long luteal phase.

    You're not pregnant.  More than likely your period is just delayed.  Take PP's advice and test once a week until you reach CD 60 or get a BFP (which I highly doubt you will). 

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    imagemabenner1:
    You are definitely pregnant. Because I said so.

    Awesome! 

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