10 dpiui BFN

kimberm0511

I know it is still techinically early to test, but that hpt was so stark white that I am 99% sure that it is accurate. 

 I am so sad.  I feel so guilty for being this sad.  I know there are many of you that have been ttc a lot longer than me and many of you have dealt with losses, which I can not imagine having to go through.  However, I am still feeling very defeated.  I knew not to get my hopes up on our first iui, but for some reason I am now feeling the pressure for this to work.  Our RE suggests only doing 3 rounds of iui and then moving to IVF.  My insurance doesn't cover IVF and I just don't know how we would be able to afford that.  My dh has basically said we wouldn't do IVF.  But like I said, it seems like the pressure is on!  We have to take this month off because we are traveling, but after that I feel like I only get 2 more tries.  ugh...this is the worst feeling ever.  Sorry to be a debbie downer...hopefully I can get more positive vibes soon.

TripMomma

HUGS...I am sorry. I did 6 IUI's to get the triplets....IVF was not an option for us. I did 3 of those IUI's unmedicated, the next 2 were Clomid but no monitoring or trigger. The 6th IUI was Clomid, ultrasound and trigger. For me what really helped was the monitoring...to be sure of timing, and the trigger to make sure things happened when they needed to. Good luck!

AprilDrew04

It could possibly still be too early.  Any faint line is considered positive, and may not show up until 12-14 dpo or dpiui.

If this isn't your month take advantage of the break month to relax if you can.

SymphonyGirl

Sending you hugs.  We are in just about the same place.  We did our first IUI last cycle and it was a bust.  I felt that same defeated feeling.  We also have decided not to do IVF for various reasons, so I am feeling like it's got to work soon or we give up.  It's not a good feeling.  Wishing you lots of luck!

Lauren79

Sending you a big hug.