I had a c-section with my last pregnancy and i got fully knocked out for the procedure but this time i thought it would be nice for my husband to be there but im not sure if i want to be awake.... i know that you dont feel any pain just pushing and pulling but i guess im just a little unsure about it becuase i dont want to freak out and iv got a big feeling i will,
Is there anyone that can give me some advice on what would be best ???
Re: C-section Worries...
You don't typically get a choice if you get general anesthesia or not. Most likely you had GA because you had a sick baby or other medical issue where baby needed to get out - right now.
Since your second c section is going to be planned, they will do an epidural or spinal anesthesia. I promise you won't feel anything, although the "pressure" was more than I expected.
Tell your OB of of your fears. They can give you an anti anxiety med IV if needed. And the spinal/epi is tested before they make a cut.
GA recovery would be much more difficult, and is not best for baby. It's only used if needed.
Best of luck, I think you will be suprised it really is ok.
DS born via unplanned C-section at 40w6d
It is really not bad, once you are numb you really cannot feel anything. The pushing and pulling you can feel, which is kind of weird, but it doesn't hurt at all. The thing I didn't realize is that I would get really shaky during the surgery. I mean literally, my arms and everything were shaking. The anesthesiologist said that is really common, I just didn't know it was going to happen so it freaked me out a bit. Overall though the experience was not that bad or scary. The anesthesiologists were there above the curtain the whole time with me and DH telling us what was going on, and telling me what to expect. They were amazing.
The epidural was scary for me, but once it came time to get it it was not a big deal either. I think I hyped it up in my mind a lot. The anesthesiologist was so good, and they really are understanding of people's fears. Just let them know.
GL!
I will tell you this was my position 5 days ago. I was knocked out for DD's birth and was so nervous/scared about my c-section with DS. In the end things could not have been better. I am not going to say it was all roses but the worse part of it for me was after getting the spinal I suddenly got really sick, but I just told the doctor and he fixed it right away.
The only pushing and pulling I really felt was when they were getting DS out. Other than that I felt light touch and slight tugging but nothing that really alarmed me. The best part was getting to experience all the stuff I did not get to experience with DD. Hearing DS's first cry, hearing that I had a boy (we were team green)
Not to mention recovery this time around has been easy as pie. I feel perfect and have not needed to take pain medication with the exception of something before bed due to having some lingering back pain from the spinal, that by the end of the day is pretty bad.
Just remember to breath, take deep breaths and relax as much as possible. It really helped to have DH there telling me it was OK and holding my hand even though I knew he was nervous as well.
It scared the daylights out of me when they told me I needed an emergency c-section. The biggest worry I had was when they inserted the needle. The doctor told me to arch my back and not move. Not easy with that big ol belly lol! I was afraid I would accidently move and screw something up. But I didn't they hold onto you and help you through it. They had too push down pretty hard when they went to take him out...it made it a little hard to breathe beyond that it was okay. I just concentrated on doing what I needed to do for LO. The recovery was a little rough but I healed well. Just talk to your doc. Let them know how you're feeling.
Thanx :-) everyone im feeling alot more calmer on the subject now :-D