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whiteroses05whiteroses05 member
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Hey, I wanted to apologize for being absent from supporting you all. I have hit a bump in the road with our EDD a month away and mixed fillings about our up coming vacation. Along with the fact my clothes just dont fit the way they should. With the vacation I am afraid I will not be able to enjoy it bc we werent suppose to go on it bc I was due two weeks after it. I also know that the day after we get back we can start trying again.

With all this I feel guilty I haven't been there lately for all of you. I hope you all know that I have been thinking about you all and hoping you all are doing well. I will try to be more supportive in the future!! Slowly but surely I promise I will get there!!

BFP#1 9/7/11 EDD 7/23/11 mc @21 weeks caused severe bladder obstruction on 3/14/12
Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
BFP #2 9/9/12 EDD 7/19/13 started to mc @ 8w1d on 12/7/12 ended up with d&c 12/18/12, stopped developing @5w5ds

Unexplained IF
BFP#3 3/3/14 After 1st iui and clomid cycle
beta 1: 137 beta 2: 268
Beta 3:1248
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  • CashewsMommyCashewsMommy member

    Sometimes in the world of TTCAL you just can't support, and that's OKAY! No need to apologize, we all understand and most of us have been there. 

    The big issue only comes when you demand support and don't give any in return.... but that's not you.  


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  • buckeyebaby814buckeyebaby814 member
    Don't feel badly, we all need a break every now and then.  I hope you enjoy your vacation!

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  • Laurakat81Laurakat81 member
    imageCashewsMommy:

    Sometimes in the world of TTCAL you just can't support, and that's OKAY! No need to apologize, we all understand and most of us have been there. 

    The big issue only comes when you demand support and don't give any in return.... but that's not you.  

    Exactly this! I doubt I gave a lick of support when I first got here and again immediately after subsequent losses. I couldn't support myself much else others! We are here to be that support for you and anyone who needs it until you are "back on your feet". (((hugs)))

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  • raashtonraashton member

    Grief is a cycle, and b/c of this, sometimes you just have more to give than other times.  But you have also found the healing in offering support to, so no worries when you have a "less" point in your journey.

    Be kind to yourself during this time.

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  • HopingforChangeHopingforChange member
    Welcome back, and I hope you are able to enjoy your vacation.
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  • ChloBubChloBub member
    Don't feel guilty. We've all been there. Do your best to enjoy your vacation. I'm enjoying a week away from home right now, and it's exactly what I needed. ((((HUGS))))
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  • psychmajormompsychmajormom member
    imageCashewsMommy:

    Sometimes in the world of TTCAL you just can't support, and that's OKAY! No need to apologize, we all understand and most of us have been there. 

    The big issue only comes when you demand support and don't give any in return.... but that's not you.  

    All of this!
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