cranky day rant.....

cpink117

super cranky today and just overall feeling tired and not wanting to do anything. Ive been on bed rest since the very begining of april and my blood pressure has just been all over the place sometimes its fine sometimes its not so they just want me to take it easy. Anyway i have to go to my moms to wash our clothes and my dad came yesterday and put them in my car for me and took them out once i got there thank goodness i only live like 3 mins away anyway he puts them back in the car when i get done and ready to leave and my SO takes them out and brings them up the 3 flights of stairs. I asked him when i got home if he would bring them up before he went out last night so i could shower (all the towels were in there) but he left and didnt do it. I have no clue when he got home last night but he slept til 12;:30 and i asked him after he ate if he would go get them so i could shower and have some clean clothes to put on(i wait as long as as possible before i have to wash clothes lol) and it took him til now to go get them. i was so aggervated all i wanted was to take a shower! I have 4 days left til my scheduled csection and i have so much to still do you would think he would want to help in anyway he could but no, he is no help i still do all the dishes wash the clothes get the babies room ready and take care of our apartment its just exhausting i understand he works all week and he pays the bills and i dont know what i would do with out him sometimes but i just need some help i cant do everything

caeraRose

Aaw, I'm sorry things are so overwhelming! I was just there yesterday! I wish I had some advice for you... sometimes when I sit down and explain to DH how exhausted and overwhelmed I am he helps, and sometimes he just says that he's tired too and that things can wait for later. ><

I hope that you get things figured out! 

angelrue522

I think you have very right to be cranky at this point in the game. I will expect complete ass kissing from my DH when I am at 39 weeks!