TTC After a Loss

~PG mentioned~

11 days DPO- got a BFP. I don't want to call my doctor, I don't want to get pricked a million times...bc I've learned that the HCG and Progesterone regardless of how good they have been still can result in a miscarriage.

I'm going out of town tomorrow and want to just wait a few days before becoming another rat in lab. So often I get a BFP, get hopes up, go in for beta's every other day...all to no avail...is it awful that I just want to stay away from the docs??

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Re: ~PG mentioned~

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  • Really???? This post is so incredibley wrong on this board. Please go to PgAL immediately. And yes, it is wrong that you want to stay away from the doctors. You need proper care when pg and avoiding them won't do any good.
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  • How can I say this nicely? oh wait I can't, so, f?ck you! I don't even know who you are, so expect me to jump up and down to squee for you.... I wish I could be going to the doc to poked and proded because I was PG but no, I have to get poked and proded at the doc to see why I keep LOSING babies so don't give me that bs about the doc. Now, go on to pgal and leave us alone. (for what its worth, I don't wish anything but a happy and healthy 9 months but this is just NOT the place to be right now)
    (USE TO BE, WISH2BEMOMMY). 1st BFP ever Aug. 16, 2010.... 1st OB appt. Sept. 8, 2010, u/s showed poss. blighted ovum.... b/w 9/8/10 22,698 b/w 9/10/10 14,521.... mmc confirmed, started naturally m/c 9/15/10, d & c 9/16/10 I love you my precious monkey!! 2nd BFP March 2011.... c/p, miss you lil one!! 3rd BFP Nov. 20, 2011, subcornial hemorrhage detected 11/24/11 heartbeat found.... LO's heartbeat lost 11/25/11.... d & c 11/26/11..... I love and miss you so much baby!!!! C/P 4/26/12.... gone before I knew you.... off BCP 10-1-13.. BFP 11-20-13.. SCH for 7 weeks.. 3-4-14: It's a Girl!.. 4-22-12 emergency cerclage placed..7-7-14 cerclage removed at 36w.. delivered Lillian Marie 7-28-14..
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  • Oh crap! i'm so sorry...i didn't know...Since I've had 5 miscarriages...I thought I stayed here...I will go. I didn't mean in anyway to be inappropriate. Sorry.
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    How can I say this nicely? oh wait I can't, so, f?ck you! I don't even know who you are, so expect me to jump up and down to squee for you.... I wish I could be going to the doc to poked and proded because I was PG but no, I have to get poked and proded at the doc to see why I keep LOSING babies so don't give me that bs about the doc. Now, go on to pgal and leave us alone. (for what its worth, I don't wish anything but a happy and healthy 9 months but this is just NOT the place to be right now)

    I did NOT mean to be rude, insensitive or inappropriate- I've been posting here just recently, and certainly did not expect any jumping up and down. After 5 loses, I don't get excited to get a BFP, I get scared for another MC. I didn't know that I wasn't supposed to post here...Obviously I have been in and AM in the same boat as i've had 5 MC's- three in past 6 months. Your "FU" was a little much for an honest mistake for someone who also has been poked and proded and had 17 vials of blood taken from her to find out why I also keep LOSING babies. Damn...it was a mistake. Thank you other posters for redirecting me to the right message board.

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  • imagewho_dat_grl:
    How can I say this nicely? oh wait I can't, so, f?ck you! I don't even know who you are, so expect me to jump up and down to squee for you.... I wish I could be going to the doc to poked and proded because I was PG but no, I have to get poked and proded at the doc to see why I keep LOSING babies so don't give me that bs about the doc. Now, go on to pgal and leave us alone. (for what its worth, I don't wish anything but a happy and healthy 9 months but this is just NOT the place to be right now)

    I did NOT mean to be rude, insensitive or inappropriate- I've been posting here just recently, and certainly did not expect any jumping up and down. After 5 loses, I don't get excited to get a BFP, I get scared for another MC. I didn't know that I wasn't supposed to post here...Obviously I have been in and AM in the same boat as i've had 5 MC's- three in past 6 months. Your "FU" was a little much for an honest mistake for someone who also has been poked and proded and had 17 vials of blood taken from her to find out why I also keep LOSING babies. Damn...it was a mistake. Thank you other posters for redirecting me to the right message board.

    2 m/c's before DS, 3 m/c's post DS (Jan '12, March'12, May '12) image Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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    Oh crap! i'm so sorry...i didn't know...Since I've had 5 miscarriages...I thought I stayed here...I will go. I didn't mean in anyway to be inappropriate. Sorry.

    You obviously haven't been here longer than 5 minutes if you think you stayed here and that this post was appropriate. 

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    imagewho_dat_grl:
    How can I say this nicely? oh wait I can't, so, f?ck you! I don't even know who you are, so expect me to jump up and down to squee for you.... I wish I could be going to the doc to poked and proded because I was PG but no, I have to get poked and proded at the doc to see why I keep LOSING babies so don't give me that bs about the doc. Now, go on to pgal and leave us alone. (for what its worth, I don't wish anything but a happy and healthy 9 months but this is just NOT the place to be right now)

    I did NOT mean to be rude, insensitive or inappropriate- I've been posting here just recently, and certainly did not expect any jumping up and down. After 5 loses, I don't get excited to get a BFP, I get scared for another MC. I didn't know that I wasn't supposed to post here...Obviously I have been in and AM in the same boat as i've had 5 MC's- three in past 6 months. Your "FU" was a little much for an honest mistake for someone who also has been poked and proded and had 17 vials of blood taken from her to find out why I also keep LOSING babies. Damn...it was a mistake. Thank you other posters for redirecting me to the right message board.

    I understand your fear.  However, posting about that fear, when so many women would give an arm and a leg to feel that will never be well received(particularly the comment in the opening post about being a rat in a lab).  You say that you have been posting here for a few months, obviously that was not enough time to understand that this IS NOT the place for such a post.

    Honestly, this is how I felt reading your post:

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    I only responded because other ladies who are more considerate and sensitive were being hurt.

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    (USE TO BE, WISH2BEMOMMY). 1st BFP ever Aug. 16, 2010.... 1st OB appt. Sept. 8, 2010, u/s showed poss. blighted ovum.... b/w 9/8/10 22,698 b/w 9/10/10 14,521.... mmc confirmed, started naturally m/c 9/15/10, d & c 9/16/10 I love you my precious monkey!! 2nd BFP March 2011.... c/p, miss you lil one!! 3rd BFP Nov. 20, 2011, subcornial hemorrhage detected 11/24/11 heartbeat found.... LO's heartbeat lost 11/25/11.... d & c 11/26/11..... I love and miss you so much baby!!!! C/P 4/26/12.... gone before I knew you.... off BCP 10-1-13.. BFP 11-20-13.. SCH for 7 weeks.. 3-4-14: It's a Girl!.. 4-22-12 emergency cerclage placed..7-7-14 cerclage removed at 36w.. delivered Lillian Marie 7-28-14..
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  • bump burp
    (USE TO BE, WISH2BEMOMMY). 1st BFP ever Aug. 16, 2010.... 1st OB appt. Sept. 8, 2010, u/s showed poss. blighted ovum.... b/w 9/8/10 22,698 b/w 9/10/10 14,521.... mmc confirmed, started naturally m/c 9/15/10, d & c 9/16/10 I love you my precious monkey!! 2nd BFP March 2011.... c/p, miss you lil one!! 3rd BFP Nov. 20, 2011, subcornial hemorrhage detected 11/24/11 heartbeat found.... LO's heartbeat lost 11/25/11.... d & c 11/26/11..... I love and miss you so much baby!!!! C/P 4/26/12.... gone before I knew you.... off BCP 10-1-13.. BFP 11-20-13.. SCH for 7 weeks.. 3-4-14: It's a Girl!.. 4-22-12 emergency cerclage placed..7-7-14 cerclage removed at 36w.. delivered Lillian Marie 7-28-14..
     "An angel in the book of life wrote down my baby's birth. Then whispered as she closed the book "too beautiful for earth"

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    imagewho_dat_grl:
    How can I say this nicely? oh wait I can't, so, f?ck you! I don't even know who you are, so expect me to jump up and down to squee for you.... I wish I could be going to the doc to poked and proded because I was PG but no, I have to get poked and proded at the doc to see why I keep LOSING babies so don't give me that bs about the doc. Now, go on to pgal and leave us alone. (for what its worth, I don't wish anything but a happy and healthy 9 months but this is just NOT the place to be right now)

    I did NOT mean to be rude, insensitive or inappropriate- I've been posting here just recently, and certainly did not expect any jumping up and down. After 5 loses, I don't get excited to get a BFP, I get scared for another MC. I didn't know that I wasn't supposed to post here...Obviously I have been in and AM in the same boat as i've had 5 MC's- three in past 6 months. Your "FU" was a little much for an honest mistake for someone who also has been poked and proded and had 17 vials of blood taken from her to find out why I also keep LOSING babies. Damn...it was a mistake. Thank you other posters for redirecting me to the right message board.

    I'm sorry if I offended you but you offended me. If you have been here for ANY amount of time it posted an intro you would have directed to our blog which CLEARLY states the board etiquette on posting about BFPs, if you would have read it, you would have KNOWN this wasn't appropriate. yes, I'm bitter, yes, I can be a b?tch, but like I said, if you were a "true" member of this board and gave been here, you would have known not to post this, so I think my FU was somewhat warrented, maybe I shouldn't have said it, but, now you know my reasoning behind it....
    (USE TO BE, WISH2BEMOMMY). 1st BFP ever Aug. 16, 2010.... 1st OB appt. Sept. 8, 2010, u/s showed poss. blighted ovum.... b/w 9/8/10 22,698 b/w 9/10/10 14,521.... mmc confirmed, started naturally m/c 9/15/10, d & c 9/16/10 I love you my precious monkey!! 2nd BFP March 2011.... c/p, miss you lil one!! 3rd BFP Nov. 20, 2011, subcornial hemorrhage detected 11/24/11 heartbeat found.... LO's heartbeat lost 11/25/11.... d & c 11/26/11..... I love and miss you so much baby!!!! C/P 4/26/12.... gone before I knew you.... off BCP 10-1-13.. BFP 11-20-13.. SCH for 7 weeks.. 3-4-14: It's a Girl!.. 4-22-12 emergency cerclage placed..7-7-14 cerclage removed at 36w.. delivered Lillian Marie 7-28-14..
     "An angel in the book of life wrote down my baby's birth. Then whispered as she closed the book "too beautiful for earth"

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    ♥♡♥ PAL/PGAL welcome♥♡♥
  • I was really hoping I'd get the chance to celebrate a stranger's BFP today. Thanks!

    I strongly suggest you add a ticker warning to your title, and while you're at it, apologize to this board. 
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    I LOVE YOU JESSIE!  This is exactly what I was thinking. 

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    LOL! I love that cat!


    [spoiler] My Blog: Grow Baby Grow

    BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

    TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]


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    Holy sh!t that gif is awesome!!!

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    BFP #1 via IUI ~ L (Fatal Birth Defect) 4/7/10
    BFP #2 via IUI ~ m/c
    BFP #3 via cancelled IUI ~ C (2lb 3oz; HELLP) 5/16/11
    BFP #4 via the natural (free!) way ~ E (8lb 11oz) 9/13/12
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