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Hi ladies, Im new to this whole forum thing so excuse me for any mistakes I may make. Anyways My name is Rae im a senior in high school right now and feel like this should be the time of my life. Unfortunatly I am in the poston to have to make alot of tough decisions.

5 weeks ago, I was told the words any teenage girl who's sexually active is afraid to hear: " Your Pregnant..." How do you react to this is a composed way so that the person delivering the news doesnt think your nuts, but at the same time dont over compensate and look happy. Its a sticky place to be at least I think it is. I am lucky enough ti have an amazing guy standing by my side, he is not my childs father but rather just an amazing guy who has balls.

Now here comes the hard part, me and as you can guess Gage is his name, found an amazing family. This was no easy process, but it was something we decided on from the very begining. I am the want to be extremly prepared type. Short story long they backed out... They said they can no longer handle the situation. I feel.. im not sure this word fits but kind of betrayed, I know its early but I had already started planning things in my own mind that involved them, id become comfortable with them, there family, there pets and other children.....

 

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  • nikkisrfnikkisrf member
    Im assuming that you were considering this family that backed out for adoption of your baby.  With that, there are many people out there who cannot concieve and would love to have a child.  Dont let that get you down, its good that they were honest with you, look at the fact that if they didnt say anything, your baby would not be in the best place.  Dont give up looking for couples.  GL to you.
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    If you are talking about a family that you had considered for adoption, things will all work out the way they are supposed to in the end. That family was not fate's plan and someone or others are out there.

    Good luck to you. 

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    Just think, that family was not the right match and another family will come along and love your LO. GL.
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    imageRae+Gage:

    Hi ladies, Im new to this whole forum thing so excuse me for any mistakes I may make. Anyways My name is Rae im a senior in high school right now and feel like this should be the time of my life. Unfortunatly I am in the poston to have to make alot of tough decisions.

    5 weeks ago, I was told the words any teenage girl who's sexually active is afraid to hear: " Your Pregnant..." How do you react to this is a composed way so that the person delivering the news doesnt think your nuts, but at the same time dont over compensate and look happy. Its a sticky place to be at least I think it is. I am lucky enough ti have an amazing guy standing by my side, he is not my childs father but rather just an amazing guy who has balls.

    Now here comes the hard part, me and as you can guess Gage is his name, found an amazing family. This was no easy process, but it was something we decided on from the very begining. I am the want to be extremly prepared type. Short story long they backed out... They said they can no longer handle the situation. I feel.. im not sure this word fits but kind of betrayed, I know its early but I had already started planning things in my own mind that involved them, id become comfortable with them, there family, there pets and other children.....

     

     

    That is definitely a tough place to be.  All I can say is keep searching.  There are so many people out there who, unfortunately, can't have children of their own and would make great parents.  Put yourself out there.  Interview AS MANY people as you possibly can, spend time with them, make a list of all the questions you have for them, and get to know them as well as you can and make a decision from there.  But you have some time to meet and choose and do all of this stuff.  I know your senior year of high school is supposed to be fun and worry free, but you have to focus your energy on finding a loving family for your baby now - and that is rewarding in a different way.  Just keep a positive mind and love in your heart, and you WILL find the right people.  I wish you the best of luck and you can PM me if you want to chat more.   

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