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Who tests on a Monday!?!

andreagbandreagb
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yeah this girl!...only to get a BFN at 11 dpo.  Now I'm in a funk, as if Monday's weren't bad enough already.  So frustrating when everything seemed soo right this month, good temps, positive OPKs, good timing for BD, its just so disheartening to see BFN!   

 I think I need a break from all things TTC, the charting, temps, testing...its all too stressful for me and my body knows it.  I need to find my "happy place" again instead of the stressed bitter place I've been in for months. I saw this quote on Facebook and thought, that's exactly what I've been doing:

"You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one"

((HUGS)) to you all.  I'm not leaving the board but I may not be around as much. I wish everyone the best. You ladies have been an integral part of my healing process. <3

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  • krisztina33krisztina33

    Aw, I'm so sorry--its only 11 dpo though--that doesn't necessarily mean you are out...

    I understand needing to take a break, but hope you will still be around :)

    ((BIG hugs))

    TTC #1 since November 2011
    ** BFP #1 - M/C at 6 weeks 4/13/2012 **
    ** BFP #2 - expecting a little leprechaun!! EDD 3/21/13 | HB 7/30/2012 (6w3d) **
    NT Scan 9/4 - looked great! | Grow, baby, grow!!! | A/S 10/29

    ***All AL always welcome***
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  • bananersbananers member
    You and me both, girl. ((hugs))
    BFP #1 10/6/11 | EDD 6/15/12 | MMC 11/7/11 @ 8w3d | D&C 11/14/11

    BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13

    BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15

    BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d

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  • DaisyZHDaisyZH member
    I'm sorry, I hate seeing BFNs.  As PPs said though, it is still pretty early so it's quite possible you could still get good news.  Either way, ((Hugs)) TTCAL is so difficult and the 2WW can be one of the hardest parts.


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  • big_noisebig_noise member
    BFNs and Mondays suck. It's still early though! Are you testing tomorrow or waiting another day?
    BFP #1, 12/22/09 - DD#1 born 9/2010
    BFP #2, 12/12/11, m/c 12/25/11
    BFP #3, 3/09/12, CP 3/10/12
    BFP #4, 7/22/12, DD#2 born 4/2013
     

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  • sammer818sammer818 member
    You're not officially out yet! I hope you are able to find your happy place and de-stress a little bit. It's amazing how much emotional energy it takes to TTCAL. *HUGS*

    TTC since April 2010
    BFP #1 – March 2011, missed m/c April 2011
    BFP #2 – October 2011, m/c November 2011
    Surprise BFP #3 – December 2011, diagnosed as cornual, terminated January 2012
    BFP #4 – June 2012, m/c July 2012
    Diagnosed with bicornuate ute and MTHR gene mutation
    BFP #5 – October 2012, missed m/c November 2012
    BFP #6 – January 2013, m/c March 2013
    No longer TTC. Diagnosis: Hostile ute. Heartbroken and bitter. Pursuing surrogacy.
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  • andreagbandreagb

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    BFNs and Mondays suck. It's still early though! Are you testing tomorrow or waiting another day?

    I won't be testing again. I happen to have one leftover test and decided to take it this morning.  Plus with the cramps and my temp making its decent...I don't think I'll need to.  With my other pgs I always had a least a faint line at 11 or 12 dpo so I'll just wait for AF and drink alot this weekend :)

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  • big_noisebig_noise member
    I'm sorry. Sad FX she still doesn't show though.
    BFP #1, 12/22/09 - DD#1 born 9/2010
    BFP #2, 12/12/11, m/c 12/25/11
    BFP #3, 3/09/12, CP 3/10/12
    BFP #4, 7/22/12, DD#2 born 4/2013
     

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  • gravytrain225gravytrain225 member
    I'm sorry.  I tested and got a BFN this morning.  It really sucks.  I do think taking a break from temping, etc is always a good thing.  We decided if this cycle doesn't work/stick, we will take a little bit of a break and just have sex normally.
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  • krisztina33krisztina33

    imagegravytrain225:
    I'm sorry.  I tested and got a BFN this morning.  It really sucks.  I do think taking a break from temping, etc is always a good thing.  We decided if this cycle doesn't work/stick, we will take a little bit of a break and just have sex normally.

    So true and so sad...I remember "normal sex" but very vaguely...

    TTC #1 since November 2011
    ** BFP #1 - M/C at 6 weeks 4/13/2012 **
    ** BFP #2 - expecting a little leprechaun!! EDD 3/21/13 | HB 7/30/2012 (6w3d) **
    NT Scan 9/4 - looked great! | Grow, baby, grow!!! | A/S 10/29

    ***All AL always welcome***
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  • ChloBubChloBub member
    ((((HUGS))) BFNs suck.
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