BM just called DH ....

HisChamaoleGirl

and asked if she could have June's CS payment NOW instead of on the first. DH said he doesnt have it now and then asked why she needed it early. She said she needs to sign SS up for summer camp and the deadline was two weeks ago so she has to pay an additional fee.

I know this is horrible, but I have to slightly laugh at the situation bc she is the one that told DH he couldnt have SS for visitation this summer and only NOW is she thinking of child care. She then proceeded to ask "does your wife have any money?"

I really wanted to just say "put SS on a plane and we will take care of this summer" but for those of you who know our situation, we just arrived to VA so that wouldnt even work at this point.

CFjo2010

Wow. Based on this exchange I guess it's safe to say BM is going to be less than thrilled with your husband modifying the CS amount....

HisChamaoleGirl

jobalchak:

Wow. Based on this exchange I guess it's safe to say BM is going to be less than thrilled with your husband modifying the CS amount....

Horrible timing right?

 Im just remembering all her speeches about how I don't exist and how she refuses  to acknowledge me as a part of her sons life and then she is asking DH to ask me for $. She also text me to ask. I keep all my "catty" remarks here and just responded to her text saying we could send the portion of CS she needed for child care and the remaining cs on the first. I just wanted it in a text so she couldn't claim later DH shorter her on the 1st. Bottom line is SS will be taken care of.

Cheerilee

Sometimes, I enjoy karma.   

BM once called DH to ask if he could send the child support that was taken out of her check automatically and send it BACK to her because she needed it for bills.  She got a big NO.  She provides nothing for SS - in fact, we've not received any child support since February of 2011.  She's finally working again but doesn't want to tell her employer that she owes child support because she needs the extra money each month for her other two children.

CFjo2010

*HiS ChAmAoLe GiRL*:

jobalchak:

Wow. Based on this exchange I guess it's safe to say BM is going to be less than thrilled with your husband modifying the CS amount....

Horrible timing right?

 Im just remembering all her speeches about how I don't exist and how she refuses  to acknowledge me as a part of her sons life and then she is asking DH to ask me for $. She also text me to ask. I keep all my "catty" remarks here and just responded to her text saying we could send the portion of CS she needed for child care and the remaining cs on the first. I just wanted it in a text so she couldn't claim later DH shorter her on the 1st. Bottom line is SS will be taken care of.

^^  Yup.  As far as BM is concerned, I'm no more than a glorified babysitter.  But as soon as she needs $$, I'm "part of the parenting unit".  Funny how that works, huh?