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cojourney24

We are almost a month out from our loss. I am anxious - but scared - to try again. If AF returns and is somewhat regular I think we will start TTC in August. I feel like we need to get through our due date for our baby girl, first.

I also want to get the results from the autopsy and other testing we had done. There is a piece of me that is scared that our anomoly was actually passed on genetically. It was such a rare thing to happen they just do not have much information.

Good luck to everyone. 

iheartcoffee

I am so sorry for your loss! I can definitely understand being scared to try again but you shouldn't try again until you feel ready. My advice is to take as much time as you need. (((HUGS))) Im so sorry again.

ChloBub

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your sweet girl. Welcome to the board; I hope you'll find the comfort here that so many of us have. Make sure you check out the TTCAL blog if you haven't already. (((HUGS))) to you.

https://ttcalblog.blogspot.com/p/for-newbies_22.html

EKGibs

I'm so sorry for the loss of your little girl. welcome to the board

Bizzy80

Welcome and I am sorry to hear of the loss of your sweet girl.  I understand why you are anxious and scared to try again.  It's normal to feel that way.  ((HUGS))

DaisyZH

I am so sorry for your loss!  I hope this board can be a source of comfort and strength for you.  ((Hugs))

shellyco

I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter.  Welcome to the board. 

krisztina33

So so sorry for the loss of your little girl.  Welcome to the board.  I am still amazed daily by this community and do not know where I would be without these ladies!!  I agree with PP that you should give yourself as much time as it takes to feel ready.  Good luck to you!!

((hugs)) 

kdruffles

I'm so very sorry for your loss. We lost our son at 26 weeks in March. We are trying to decide when to start trying also. I would like to start right away but it is such a big decision. I keep going back and forth with it. One day it's July, one day it's Aug. Then it's lets wait a yr. I'm 34 and My DH is 38 so I feel like age is an issue for us. No telling how long it will take.I guess We have to go with what we feel is the best at the moment! That what I'm going to do. I know this probably didnt help much, just wanted to let you know your not alone. : )