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Today could've been the day...

ashleyl31ashleyl31 member
in TTC After a Loss

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Thank you ladies for being here for me the last 6 months when I needed it. I know I have been in and out, but I really appreciate it. 

Married my best friend May 24, 2008
BFP #1 9/1/11, EDD 5/15/12, Missed M/C at 9w4d, discovered at 11w3d, D&C 11/2/11
BFP #2 6/20/12, Baby Boy born 3/2/13
BFP #3 October 2016, EDD 6/11/17
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Re: Today could've been the day...

  • raashtonraashton member
    I'm sorry sweetie.  It is so hard not to let yourself get into the "what if" thought spiral.  Let yourself have this day, be gentle with yourself.  That's what helped me get thru my EDD.  I let myself have unlimited time to think that over, but I also used the day as a bookend, like, "Ok, even though Baby isn't with me, they still got a full nine months to themselves.  Now it is really okay to close that chapter."  Much love and comfort to you today.
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  • foxxy1foxxy1 member
    *HUGS*
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  • krisztina33krisztina33
    <<hugs>> :(
    TTC #1 since November 2011
    ** BFP #1 - M/C at 6 weeks 4/13/2012 **
    ** BFP #2 - expecting a little leprechaun!! EDD 3/21/13 | HB 7/30/2012 (6w3d) **
    NT Scan 9/4 - looked great! | Grow, baby, grow!!! | A/S 10/29

    ***All AL always welcome***
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  • funny bunnyfunny bunny member
    *hugs*
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    נשמה שבאה לעולם למספר חודשים לשהות במעי האם, היא נשמת צדיק גמור שבאה לעולם רק לתקן פגם קטן ולאחר מספר חודשים אלו היא שבה למקומה לגן עדן להתענג על ה'. לעתיד לבוא נשמה זו תוכר באחד מבנייך ובזכות נשמת צדיק זה תזכי להיות במחיצת צדיקים
    TTC Since September 2011
    BFP#1:Dec.1.11 EDD:Aug.09.12 MC:Jan.11.12 (9WK5D)-Natural
    BFP#2:Apr.18.12 EDD:Dec.21.12 MC:May.1.12 (6WK3D)-D&C
    BFP#3:Sep.12.12 - Suspected CP | BFP#4:Dec.1.12 - Suspected CP
    BFP#5: Dec.26.12 EDD:Sep.10.13 MC:Jan.7.13 (4WK6D)-Natural
    BFP#6: Jun.11.13 EDD:Feb.23.13 Beta: #1=8000 #2=24532 US@6wk2d showed 7wk2d size with 143BPM HR * NT US@12wk6d looked good. A/S passed with flying colors and our team color is Blue! *Grow my little Pamplemousse*!!!
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  • shanrobshanrob member
    Hugs.  I hope you are able to get through the day peacefully.
    BFP #1 - Chemical Pregnancy ----BFP#2 - DD born at 32 weeks-----BFP #3 Spontaneous Identical Twin Boys lost due to Missed M/C - on 7/1/11----BFP #4 Baby girl lost due to Trisomy 22 on 1/6/12 PGAL and PAL Always Welcome! Image and video hosting by TinyPic
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  • DaisyZHDaisyZH member
    I'm so sorry (( hugs )). Take care of yourself today.


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  • bananersbananers member
    ((big hugs))
    BFP #1 10/6/11 | EDD 6/15/12 | MMC 11/7/11 @ 8w3d | D&C 11/14/11

    BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13

    BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15

    BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d

    Just keep swimming.
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  • kiki4kiki4 member
    ((hugs))
    BFP 1/19/12 No heartbeat at 7w4d 3rd dose Cytotec 3/1/12
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  • hrgunasekera1hrgunasekera1
    ((Hugs))
    Anniversary
    BFP #1: 12/5/11, M/C 12/19/11
    BFP #2: 5/22/12 Due 2/1/13 Baby girl born 2/2/13
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  • ChloBubChloBub member
    Huge (((((HUGS))))), Ash. DH and I are headed to Chick-Fil-A soon. I'll post here again once I update my blog for today. XO
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    BFP#1: 9-13-11 EDD: 5-26-12 MMC: 11-4-11 D&C: 11-8-11
    BFP#2: 7-6-12 Elizabeth Faye ("Zuzu") born 3-21-13
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  • tdmd09tdmd09 member
    ((hugs)) I'm sorry. EDDs are tough. :(
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  • shellycoshellyco member
    ((HUGS)) to you today.
    DD 9/2/13


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  • buckeyebaby814buckeyebaby814 member

    ::HUGS::

     


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  • EKGibsEKGibs member
    (((((hugs)))))
    TTC since 4/28/07
    Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
    BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
    Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.

    June '13 Decided to go the adoption route!

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  • neesie3173neesie3173
    ((hugs))
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  • ashleyl31ashleyl31 member
    imageChloBub:
    Huge (((((HUGS))))), Ash. DH and I are headed to Chick-Fil-A soon. I'll post here again once I update my blog for today. XO
    Thank you so much Chlo. I had lots of sprite today as well. :)
    Married my best friend May 24, 2008
    BFP #1 9/1/11, EDD 5/15/12, Missed M/C at 9w4d, discovered at 11w3d, D&C 11/2/11
    BFP #2 6/20/12, Baby Boy born 3/2/13
    BFP #3 October 2016, EDD 6/11/17
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  • ashleyl31ashleyl31 member
    imageJessiebug81:
    I'm sorry friend. Please know that even though you're in and out, I think about you all the time. ((HUGS))
    thank you! I think about all of you every day, whether I post or not.
    Married my best friend May 24, 2008
    BFP #1 9/1/11, EDD 5/15/12, Missed M/C at 9w4d, discovered at 11w3d, D&C 11/2/11
    BFP #2 6/20/12, Baby Boy born 3/2/13
    BFP #3 October 2016, EDD 6/11/17
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  • ashleyl31ashleyl31 member
    Thank you ladies. You're the best!
    Married my best friend May 24, 2008
    BFP #1 9/1/11, EDD 5/15/12, Missed M/C at 9w4d, discovered at 11w3d, D&C 11/2/11
    BFP #2 6/20/12, Baby Boy born 3/2/13
    BFP #3 October 2016, EDD 6/11/17
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  • KDS1987KDS1987 member
    Huge Hugs, I hope you were able to find some peace today
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    TTC Since Summer 2011
    BFP #1 11/5/11 EDD 7/22/12 MC 11/14/11
    PGAL/PAL Always Welcome
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  • BabytoVBabytoV member
    I am so sorry for your loss today.  I had never heard that song and I am sitting here bawling right now..what a beautiful song.
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  • BOTB32010BOTB32010 member
    ((Huge Huge Hugs))
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  • ChloBubChloBub member

    imageashleyl31:
    imageChloBub:
    Huge (((((HUGS))))), Ash. DH and I are headed to Chick-Fil-A soon. I'll post here again once I update my blog for today. XO
    Thank you so much Chlo. I had lots of sprite today as well. :)

    https://oneemerald.blogspot.com/2012/05/may-15-happiness-is-when-what-you-think.html ((HUGS))

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    My Blog: One Emerald
    BFP#1: 9-13-11 EDD: 5-26-12 MMC: 11-4-11 D&C: 11-8-11
    BFP#2: 7-6-12 Elizabeth Faye ("Zuzu") born 3-21-13
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