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I think I'll need to go back to the RE :-(

Bronxgirl73Bronxgirl73
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I'm trying to come to terms with this.  I'm in the 2WW, but I have a strong feeling I'm not PG.  I needed fertility tx for DD, but I was hoping I'd be one of those special cases who miraculously can get PG the second time around without intervention.  It does not appear that I am.  As much as I've been dreading this, I started realizing today that we should go ahead and start making appts if I get a BFN.  This time around I'll have more of an idea what to expect which has plusses and minuses. I'm still praying for a BFP, but I think I need to change my mindset.  Sad
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Re: I think I'll need to go back to the RE :-(

  • LlamamamaLlamamama member
    Just wanted to wish you luck.. don't give up hope til you have to! 
    Me: 40 Dh: 41, TTC since August 2009, began Acupuncture and Herbs Sept 2011, began Temping and Charting Nov 2011. image
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  • MarylandWedMarylandWed member
    I'm sorry :-(
    Me:39 Dx LPD, Fibroid, AMA and all that goes with that. H:37 Dx low motility and low morphology. TTC since 3/12. Clomid 8/12 and 9/12: BFN. 11/12 on a break for Myomectomy sched. 11/26. Resume TTC early 2013.
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  • MrsTRAVMrsTRAV member
    I'm so sorry.

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  • danieleandwaynedanieleandwayne member

    It's not over til AF shows up, right? Until then... your BFP is possible.

    And if you don't get the BFP, we'll all be here for the next step.  ((hugs))

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    TTC #2: BFP 4/22 but stalled growth and no HB at 9w3d on 5/30        

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  • mtlaurelmtlaurel
    I'm sorry. Good luck.
    TTC #1 since June 2010
    Me: 36, DH: 42
    Dx: DOR and MFI

    DH: low count + very low motility; hormones all normal; Sperm DNA Frag. test = poor to fair; male karyotyping normal
    Me: FSH 13.4 + AMH 0.26 + hypothyroidism; Scratch the hypothyrodism (?); Blood clotting and immune panel all negative; endometrial biopsy normal

    IVF #1 (MDLF - Jul/Aug 2011): BFN (9R, 5M, 3F with ICSI, 3dt of 1 10-cell grade 2, no frosties)
    IVF #2 (EP-antagonist - Sep/Oct 2011): BFN (6R, 4M, 3F w/ ICSI, 3dt of 1 6-cell, 1 7-cell, grade 4s, no frosties)
    DE IVF #1 (shared cycle - June 2012): c/p (6R, 6F w/ICSI, 3dt 1 8-cell grade A- and 1 7-cell grade A-; no frosties)
    DE IVF #2 (shared cycle with new donor - Nov/Dec/ 2012): - BFP!!!!! 12/14/12. U/S on 12/27 shows twins!!!!!

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  • Bronxgirl73Bronxgirl73
    Thanks everyone.  One of the things that has me stressed out about getting treatment this time around is that some things have changed at my job and they are going to give me a much harder time if i need to come in a few minutes late when i have to go to clinic in the mornings.  As if it's not hard enough...
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  • TammyDoubleBTammyDoubleB member
    I'm sorry. Good luck to you!
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    My Age - 41, DH's Age - 42

    TTC #1 since November 2011
    Dx: Endometriosis, Stenosis of the Cervix, Uterine Polyp, Hostile CM and Borderline PCOS
    Stage 1 Endo and Uterine Polyp removed and Cervix widened on July 9, 2012.
    IUI #1 Clomid 50 mg - 3/6/13 BFN
    IUI #2 Clomid 50 mg - 4/3/13 BFN
    IUI #3 Clomid 50 mg - 10/4/13 BFN
    IUI #4 Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger - 11/2/13 BFN
    Cycle #28 - Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger + TI (IUI #5 cancelled) - 2/5/14 BFN
    IUI #5 Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger - 3/5/14 BFN
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  • JennyP1JennyP1 member

    Just take it one step at a time...first, let's wait and see about your BFP, then if necessary you move onto the next thing. Can you talk to your employer and see if they can work around your schedule if need be?

     Just remember we are all here for you ((HUGS))

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  • annaliselannalisel member

    Hugs. It is overwhelming to think about all you'll need to do, but you can do it! It will be worth it in the end.

    Fx that you'll get lucky. 

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  • lindaeverlylindaeverly member

    imageLlamamama:
    Just wanted to wish you luck.. don't give up hope til you have to! 

     

    DITTO!!!!!! 

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  • FaithfullyinloveFaithfullyinlove
    imagedanieleandwayne:

    It's not over til AF shows up, right? Until then... your BFP is possible.

    And if you don't get the BFP, we'll all be here for the next step.  ((hugs))

     This here..... 

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