an act of kindness letting me know i wasnt alone...

whiteroses05

I wanted to share with you about something that happened to me. Its amazing who you run into that has gone through the same thing. It makes it feel as though you arent alone. I would never of thought during or after the loss of ol just how many couples face a loss. Well today a guy that is working with the company I work for came up to me...keep in mind I have never met this guy before he introduced himself. He told me he was sorry for our loss and said that he had talked to my h a week ago. He also shared with me that he and his wife are going though the same thing. He told me his wife was pregnant with twins and suffered a loss at 12 weeks. I could tell from his face how much it hurt to talk about it. He shared with me how the twins were concieved after months of waiting. He said his wife and struggled to get pregnant. He shared with also how it is from a guys point of view...something I was missing. My h shares his thoughts every once and a blue moon but it was nice to hear a different point of view. They are trying again and I just ak if you could send your prays there way. I hope that he recieves the kindness that he gave to me. I also hope his wife find us here as I had shared this site with her h. Hope everyone is having a good monday!

fluttergirlmoonchild79

I've been amazed through our journey just how many people have experienced a loss of their own.  We've met so many wonderful people and made some new friends who understand what we're going through.  I talked to my mom last night and she told me that their neighbors (who actually did our wedding photos) had a grandchild who was born sleeping 6 years ago.  I know it's been difficult for my parents because they haven't really found anyone who's lost a grandchild but I could hear the relief in her voice from them talking to their neighbors.  I hate that we all have to endure this journey but I love all the amazing people we've met along the way including all of you!  I will say an extra prayer for this couple.  {{HUGS}}

foxxy1

That was an act of kindness! And I agree, it's amazing the people you meet on this journey. It does feel good there are others who can relate.

weddedwife

As much as it breaks my heart to hear yet another loss story, I love it when people tell me their stories. Especially if they are not people I would otherwise interact with, or if they had to go out of their way to tell me. It's like a moment of "you're not alone, we know exactly what you're facing".