I give up!!! (short rant)

tpstover

So its official. I am going to diagnose the father of my child as BI-POLAR!!! Two weeks ago he wanted me to promise him that no matter if he is doing good or bad, that i will let him see our daughter.... However on Tuesday, he made a post on FB about how he was going to do something dumb so that he can get arrested...And I text him saying "What about seeing your daughter"... he responds "Leave me the F*** alone...I dont love that baby"...

 Who does that? I'm done. After him being so mean to me after i told him i was pregnant...threating my safety...and then completly stop talking to me...and now this...I AM DONE. With no apology from him...I tried helping him find a job, got him interviews and giving him words of encouragment, and I even considered not filing for child support... yet he still chooses to be an ***. Im done being nice. Im not going to continue to play the back and forth games.. He won't see my daughter until the courts set theur guidelines. I have to protect my daughter from being hurt.

SemperFiPurpleHeart

I have totally been there. My Ex is Bi-Polar too so I know what you are having to deal with (undiagnosed however, but meets all qualities and needs help!) My Ex feels its everyone elses fault and the worlds fault but not his. He is completely normal and does not need help...hmmm...

mommytoconnor

If I were you I would make copies of those rants on FB, keep them someplace safe, and stay away from him.  Cut off contact and all ties and be DONE.  Then when it all goes to court you have a little proof of his behavior.

lilhockeygurlMOM

Either he is crazy or he might actually be bi-polar. You have every right to protect your child. You need to find out the truth behind his behavior. If he is bi-polar its not nice to judge him because of it or keep his child from him (medication can fix his mental state)...but if he is just crazy don't deal with his bs.