TTC After a Loss

with mothers day around the corner....

with mothers day around the corner i cant help but be sad knowing that i was that close to being a mother my self not looking forward to sunday Sad

Re: with mothers day around the corner....

  • I know exactly how you feel! I keep thinking I should be pregnant and have a big belly by now. I tried to get out of mothers day, but it didn't work.
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    imageK1111K:
    Yeah, Mother's Day is no fun for me since I've lost both a baby and my mom...blech.

    Yeah, this is me too. Last year was my first Mother's Day since my mom died, and the first since I had a miscarriage. It sucked, I barricaded myself in my room and didn't come out, and then I got yelled at by my dad because I didn't call my stepmom (who married my dad when I was 21) to wish her happy Mother's Day.

    This year I've sent her flowers so I hopefully don't have to call. Now I've lost two babies, have no mother, and have no desire to interact with anyone who wants to casually ask me what I got my mom for Mother's Day or what my kids are doing for me. 

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    I also noticed that you're new to the board; I read your bio in your profile, and I'm really glad your friend recommended TTCAL--it's a wonderful place full of amazing, supportive women. I hope that you'll take a moment to read the blog (there's a link in the page header) that has lots of great information for "newbies," and you might also want to consider posting an intro with a bit more of your history so we can all get to know you better.

    Many hugs--and I hope you can find small joys in this weekend. 

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    imageK1111K:
    Yeah, Mother's Day is no fun for me since I've lost both a baby and my mom...blech.

    That's awful, I'm so sorry for both of your losses. ((hugs))

    I just can't watch TV lately. The commercials for Mother's Day crap just make me cry.

    The commercials have been driving nuts lately.

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    imageVeganlady:

    imageK1111K:
    Yeah, Mother's Day is no fun for me since I've lost both a baby and my mom...blech.

    That's awful, I'm so sorry for both of your losses. ((hugs))

    I just can't watch TV lately. The commercials for Mother's Day crap just make me cry.

    The commercials have been driving nuts lately.

     

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  • I am right there with all of you - been struggling with my emotions all week. My wish for all of us is that next year we get to celebrate with our own children in our arms!

    ETA: Changed wording and typos. 

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