TTC After a Loss

~*~*~ Forever Fireworks Check-In ~*~*~

Hi ladies! Happy Wednesday to you all ... At least I hope this finds you in a positive place today! I'll admit that I am again swamped at work, and have to unexpectedly put out a magazine in the next two days, in addition to my normal stuff. (Surprise Kacy, because obviously you don't have enough to worry about! Ha.) So, know I'll be around, but if I'm not quick to check back in, please don't take it personally. All of the July Moms constantly remain on my mind.

This is a weekly check-in open to any and all ladies who have had a loss with an EDD in the month of July (any year). To all the new ladies, welcome to the group. I am so sorry for your loss, but glad you can find support here. Tell us about yourself and join the conversation!

TTA: Jelero, KacyChicago (EDD 7/23/12), MAtoNC (EDD 7/15/12) Deethebee

TTC: ConnieRob (EDD 7/16/12), Edinger (EDD 7/14/12), ElleJM (EDD 7/24/12), Hollyg13 (EDD 7/20/12), Jellybean902 (EDD 7/2/12), Lavril (EDD 7/12/11), Mlal78 (EDD 7/26/12), Mrscarbo (EDD 7/20/12), Stoddardkerekanich (EDD 7/10/12), KDS1987 (EDD 7/22/12)

Grads: 8daysaweek (EDD 7/17/12), Baroogirl, Lex382, NeverKnew, Styme46 (EDD 7/5/11), Bsn1752

Congratulations Cubskers (EDD 7/28/12)!!! So happy about your BFP, and can't wait to watch your baby grow!

How is everyone doing this week? Any tests, appointments, or updates? (((Big hugs))) to those who need them and FX for the ladies testing this week!

GTKY: How are you doing with Mother's Day coming up on Sunday? Do you have anything special planned, to commemorate or to avoid, the day? I'll be thinking of you all.

 

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We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.

“So can you understand? Why I want a daughter while I’m still young? I wanna hold her hand and show her some beauty before all this damage is done. But if it’s too much to ask, it’s too much to ask … Then send me a son.” – Arcade Fire

Re: ~*~*~ Forever Fireworks Check-In ~*~*~

  • KDS1987KDS1987 member

    Sorry you are so swamped at work still! Hopefully it will slow down for you soon.

    This has been a pretty decent week. We spent last weekend in Vegas for a USMC event and it was a lot of fun. The only bad part was I found out through one of DH's buddies that they are on the schedule to go to Afganistan next year. DH didn't tell me because he didn't want to worry me. Instead he said it was going to be a non combat deployment. I understand his reasoning but am still a little upset because I see it as him not thinking I am strong enough to handle it. So we have pretty much been on and off fighting for the week. Oh and to add a little drama, I am in 2WW from hell. I have pretty much convinced myself that this is the month because of all these little "signs" that really mean nothing but I am allowing myself to think they do since I can't learn from my mistakes apparently.So I will test this weekend, hopefully it is good news! Oh and I am charting, I just don't have a link to it because it was kinda wierding me out.

    If this turns out to not be our cycle after all, I am starting Clomid. It took over a week to convince DH to try it because he is positive we are now going to have twins. Apparently, if he leaves me for 7 months with 2 babies at home he thinks he is going to come home to an empty house. Ummmm probably not.

    Well this was a novel. Sorry about that, I have had a lot of venting to get off my chest I guess! I hope all is well with you guys. Have a Happy Mother's Day everyone. I personally don't have any special plans, I am going to treat it like any other day and try and forget about it.

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    TTC Since Summer 2011
    BFP #1 11/5/11 EDD 7/22/12 MC 11/14/11
    PGAL/PAL Always Welcome
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  • Hope nobody minds if I keep checking in for a while - until I'm confident this will stick, I'm still lurking on TTCAL!  If anyone has an issue, let me know and I'll refrain.   

    More bloodwork on Thursday to make sure my betas are doubling appropriately, so would appreciate any doubling vibes that y'all can send my way. 

    Mother's Day:  I'll be on a plane, by myself, flying back from a cousin's wedding.  They invited me to stay for Mother's Day brunch, but I opted to spend it by myself.  It's safer that way.  It'll be a hard day...I'll be thinking about all of you as well. 

    Kacy - sorry you're so buried at work.  I wish I could help.  I have things to do, but don't have near deadlines.  Since I'm a last-minute girl, I'm avoiding them. 

    Happy Wednesday all!

    After 22 months TTC and the loss of our identical twins at 10w6d, we're excited about our rainbow baby!
    Stick, baby, Stick!
    Beta #1 (12dpo): 38.3; Beta #2 (15dpo): 202.7
    Baby Girl born 1/17/13
  • KDS1987KDS1987 member
    imageCubskers:

    Hope nobody minds if I keep checking in for a while - until I'm confident this will stick, I'm still lurking on TTCAL!  If anyone has an issue, let me know and I'll refrain.   

    More bloodwork on Thursday to make sure my betas are doubling appropriately, so would appreciate any doubling vibes that y'all can send my way. 

    Mother's Day:  I'll be on a plane, by myself, flying back from a cousin's wedding.  They invited me to stay for Mother's Day brunch, but I opted to spend it by myself.  It's safer that way.  It'll be a hard day...I'll be thinking about all of you as well. 

    Kacy - sorry you're so buried at work.  I wish I could help.  I have things to do, but don't have near deadlines.  Since I'm a last-minute girl, I'm avoiding them. 

    Happy Wednesday all!

    Congrats! Sending you tons of thoughts and prayers for some wonderful betas! For what its worth, I don't mind if you keep checking in. Keep us posted on how everything is going!

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    TTC Since Summer 2011
    BFP #1 11/5/11 EDD 7/22/12 MC 11/14/11
    PGAL/PAL Always Welcome
  • Hey ladies!

    This week has been really productive for me...we got a house! A freakin gorgeous one! In a great neighborhood! On a half acre! Can you tell that I'm tired of hotel life? We don't move in until next week and I just found out that our POD from CA won't get here until a week after we move in. Looks like we'llbe playing camp out at the new digs:)

     

    DH and I had planned in going to Hot Springs for mothers day because i really want to take a mineral soak and have a massage but it looks like AF is going to rain on my parade. I think I'm on CD33 or something like that. I wish the old bat would just show up all ready. I've been having awful cramps for days. Btw, there is no phishing in the previous sentences,there was absolutely no nookie cd 1 to cd 24or so. It's pretty hard to get romantical when you are sleeping either next door to your parents or in your FIL bed ( but not with said FIL).

     

    Hopefully everyone has a great week, hopefully i'll see you all next week from my very own house! 

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    TTC Baby Rob #1 05/07, BFP 06/07, EDD 02/22/08, Baby Jackaroo born via c-section after 22 hours of labor on 02/27/08
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    TTC Baby Rob #2 06/11 BFP 11/06/11 EDD 07/16/12 Natural M/C 11/25/11 @ 6w3d
    Baby Rob #2 (Sloane), in our hearts always.
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    Here comes Baby Rob #3
     BFP on Cycle 17 09/27/12. EDD 06/04/12! Please Stick Baby! A/S 01/22/13 Baby looking great. Officially TEAM BLUE! Jack is getting a Baby Brother! RCS scheduled for 05/29/13. William Daryll born at 9:59am on 05/29/13. Left ovary and tube removed due to peach sized tumor found during RCS. Pathology came back benign!



  • Hello Ladies! I hope you are all doing well.  I have also been very busy at work. I am 3DPO, so the 2WW begins. I got my CH's today. I'm not feeling too confident about this cycle, so we'll have to wait & see. 

    As for Mother's Day, I'm really not doing anything.  Don't need the reminder.  Hope everyone has a great remainder of the week! 

     


    BFP#1: 10/29/11 EDD: 7/14/12 MMC: 12/28/11 BFP#2: 5/17/12 EDD: 1/27/13 Trevor was born on 1/21/13! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker photo 8e4774ee-d2a4-4dd5-9180-492d059e568e_zpsb44e90d8.jpg
  • Elle jMElle jM member

    Congrats Cubskers!  Lots and lots of sticky baby dust coming your way!

    Kacy, I hope things calm down for you soon! 

     I'm 6 DPO, and completely making up phantom symptoms (much earlier then normal). My chest is tender, but I'm sure that's because I've been poking at it for 2 days!  Stick out tongue  Our timing wasn't great, and I don't have high hopes, but I'm still over analyzing every twitch.  AND AGAIN, I'm only 6 DPO!

    GTKY: Mother's day isn't bothering me at all.  Maybe I'm in some sort of denial?  I don't know.  I'm a mom, I don't need Hallmark to tell me that.  I won't feel sad celebrating my own mom.  She deserves more then one day.  Again, this could all be false, and I'll be a mess on Sunday, but for now I don't think I'll be sad. 

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  • My week has been going good. DH sent me roses unexpectedly to work at the end of last week (after having a bad night - BFP mentioned, not mine of course), so that just made day. Those roses did so much for me. I had been pretty depressed and that little gesture picked me up and things all week have been great. I feel so much closer to DH right now. I guess I just needed a little boost. That "lovey" feeling towards him is back and I'm so happy it is. I am starting to feel a little bit more like myself this past week.

    GTKY: Right now Mothers Day coming up hasn't brought me down (yet), but DH usually gets me card or something little since I'm step-mom to his daughter. Plus, I'll be so occupied this weekend with other things. Saturday is the Ohio Bumpie Get To Gether. There are 7 or 8 girls getting together from all over Ohio. WOOT WOOT! Then Sunday I'll be spending time with my mom and grandma, and then playing some volleyball later that evening.

     

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