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dbadura01dbadura01 member
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My friend sent me an email this week telling me about how her pregnancy is going and what they're going to name the little girl.  She then asked me if I was pregnant yet because "it's this month or next, right?".  I got married 8 months after her and then had my DS 8 months after she had her DS so we always joke about me being 8 months behind.

I haven't responded yet because I don't want to think about how I'm NOT pregnant.  I guess I'm just thinking about it a lot today and getting sad about it... I guess I'll have to respond sometime soon.  On a bright note, I made the birthday banner and moustaches for DS's birthday party and it turned out pretty darn good if I may say so myself.  Distraction is key....

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  • irishgirl0525irishgirl0525 member
    I'm confused, your ticker says you have a baby.
    TTC since 3/2010. Me 41, DH-49. After 3 years, 6 IUIs and several IVFs we have finally have our beautiful baby girl, born on 11/7/13.



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  • MarylandWedMarylandWed member
    imageirishgirl0525:
    I'm confused, your ticker says you have a baby.
    I think she is talking about #2? 
    Me:39 Dx LPD, Fibroid, AMA and all that goes with that. H:37 Dx low motility and low morphology. TTC since 3/12. Clomid 8/12 and 9/12: BFN. 11/12 on a break for Myomectomy sched. 11/26. Resume TTC early 2013.
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  • Bronxgirl73Bronxgirl73

    imageirishgirl0525:
    I'm confused, your ticker says you have a baby.

    Her post says she has a baby, too.  a son who will be having a moustache party.  She is TTC a second baby.

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  • dbadura01dbadura01 member

    imageirishgirl0525:
    I'm confused, your ticker says you have a baby.

    Yes.. we are TTC number 2 quickly due to age and having Multiple Sclerosis. 

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  • danieleandwaynedanieleandwayne member

    First of all-- I think it is really smart of you to wait until you're ready/in a good place. That shows that you are a really great friend.

    As a good friend, I'm sure she will recognize if you are hesitant and can't immediately reply with excitement. I bet she also is trying to be positive with how she talks to you, as well, both about her pregnancy and your future #2. 

    This is hard enough without the added stress of MS-- and MS is hard enough without the added stress of TTC > 35. 

    Hang in there.  ((hugs))

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  • dbadura01dbadura01 member
    imagedanieleandwayne:

    First of all-- I think it is really smart of you to wait until you're ready/in a good place. That shows that you are a really great friend.

    As a good friend, I'm sure she will recognize if you are hesitant and can't immediately reply with excitement. I bet she also is trying to be positive with how she talks to you, as well, both about her pregnancy and your future #2. 

    This is hard enough without the added stress of MS-- and MS is hard enough without the added stress of TTC > 35. 

    Hang in there.  ((hugs))

     

    Thank you... that really made me feel better.... I appreciate it.

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