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I am just so sad....

dmgalley25dmgalley25
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

I am so sad this week and it is making everything else seem that much worse. DH is so ready to try again. I was thanking God when my ob said wait 2-3 cycles. Every time I read about someone here having a second or third loss my heart breaks for them. I cannot imagine this sadness x2 or 3. The thought of a second trimester loss takes my breath away.

Now that this has happened to me, every time I even think of trying again all I can think of is all the things that can go wrong. I have no hope. I don't know how to get it back....

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Re: I am just so sad....

  • imwithrebelimwithrebel
    It's hard and scary. I don't really know where to find hope either. But like everything, it feels better with time. ((hugs))
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  • E&JhssweetheartsE&Jhssweethearts
    We aren't even close to that step yet, but I understand the fear. PP is right, everything in time... Just talk to your DH, I'm sure he will understand your fears.
    BFP#1 10/8/08 DD born 6/24/09
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    BFP#2 4/4/12 EDD: 12/13/12 m/c at 8w2d
    BFP#3 8/18/12 EDD: 5/1/13 Beta @13DPO: 61, Beta@15DPO: 216
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  • krisztina33krisztina33

    I'm super scared too, and I think that is just inevitable.  Take your time getting back to TTC.  I don't know that you will ever feel "ready" after a loss.  The risk of something happening again seems too painful.

    We are all here to support you.  Hope will return--just give yourself time to heal first...

    TTC #1 since November 2011
    ** BFP #1 - M/C at 6 weeks 4/13/2012 **
    ** BFP #2 - expecting a little leprechaun!! EDD 3/21/13 | HB 7/30/2012 (6w3d) **
    NT Scan 9/4 - looked great! | Grow, baby, grow!!! | A/S 10/29

    ***All AL always welcome***
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  • dmgalley25dmgalley25
    Thank you all so much and i am so sorry for your losses too. i feel a bit better today.
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