Do you pay someone (maid, cleaning service, nanny, etc.) to help with housework? Not outdoor stuff like landscaping, just inside. I'm trying to get DH on board with hiring a cleaning lady and would love to hear your experiences. If you don't mind sharing the cost, frequency, and if you think it's worth it that would be great!
We are going to try to make a schedule for ourselves first, but I don't have high hopes. DH is notorious for doing really well at first but getting lazy on me later. It just isn't cutting it and I need some help.
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Re: CP: maid service
We pay $80 every two weeks for 2000sq ft. It is literally one of the best things we've done for ourselves, for our marriage and for our family. We both get really frustrated with a messy house. It was causing arguments and the stress of constantly having some part of the house looking disgusting. Surprise visitors would send us both into a panic or embarassment.
It also allows us to focus our attention on other house projects or bigger cleaning tasks (like painting, baseboard scrubbing or window cleaning)
I voted no, but for a few months when DD was a baby, my MIL helped us clean. We paid her $50 a week and she cleaned our 1000sf home. I kept it tidy but never got around to sweeping, moping or cleaning the bathroom. She just kinda stopped doing it, but it was really nice we had help for a bit.
Now that I'm not so overwhelmed with the kids and housework, I just do it. DH does help a lot as well.
We can't afford the extra several hundred a month right now, but as soon as we can I want to hire a cleaning service to come at least twice a month.
We do have a gardener that comes weekly though.
We pay a neighbor $50 every other week to do our 1200 sq ft home. Not having to do bathrooms and knowing the floors have been done well at least that often is huge. Now that DS is potty training it's even more important so I can just do quick wipe downs as needed!
We tried a few services but didn't have great luck. We may use someone else this summer to do a more thorough job when then the neighbor is on vacation (recommended by a friend but I don't want to 'fire' my neighbor as it really has worked out well for all of us).
I have no idea what our square footage, but I would estimate its ~ 2500-3000. We pay 100 EOW. She vacuums, dusts, etc. plus does the kitchen and bathrooms. It wasn't getting done before, but it WEIGHED on me and I was totally stressed trying to get it done. Its soooo much better now.
We've had some help w/ our yard and I am trying to get DH to hire a regular person.
BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d
BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11
BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d
BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13
BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
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We pay $120/weekly for a 4 bedroom 3500+ sf home.