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Have you ever been to a medium?

I'm feeling kind of spooked but excited right now. A month ago my friend asked me to go to a medium. Her mom passed away and she was hoping to get a message from her, and she was thinking I could get a message from Max and Molly. My DH was adamant that I don't go. He is very spooked by psychics and mediums. My friend ended up not going since I didn't go.

 Fast forward to today. I talked to my little sister and she said she had something to tell me.  She's known for over a week but didnt know how I would take it. Her former college roommate Kristin called her over a week ago to tell her about a medium she went to. The medium kept talking about 2 little babies. Kristin kept saying she didn't know anybody with 2 little babies but the medium wouldn't stop asking about the two babies. Finally it dawned on Kristin that she meant Max and Molly! The message was that they are both ok. And the crazy thing is...Kristin happened to be at the medium on my due date. She went to a different medium than the one I was supposed to see. I'm really spooked right now. Somehow Max and Molly were able to get the message to me even though my friend and I ended up not going to the medium. I feel so weird right now and don't know how to process this information. Have any of you been to psychics or mediums?

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Re: Have you ever been to a medium?

  • That is great and spooky!!  I mentioned this last month, but on my due date of march 1 (I always thought it was feb 28, but the dr kept saying march 1), my friend called me on her way to work saying Andrew was telling her she HAD to call me and tell me he was ok. It was almost like she was channeling him. The childlike insistency with which she kept repeating things called to mind a little boy pulling on his mother's skirt. I have never believed in that, but on that date of all dates?  I am glad you got a message too. 
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  • I would love to see a medium but I don't know where to start where I live. I would love to know that Sydney is okay and if she is around me at all.
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  • You have to be careful with how legit they are, but yes, I've been to one.  Well, really, we know one.  She's a friend of the family.  On the day of Logan's funeral she was present and pulled us aside saying she had a message for us when we were ready.  We waited until later that day, but the stuff she said sounded so much like what I already knew of Logan and we have both had readings from her before so we know she truly is legit.  I've talked to her a few times actually about my grief, healing, and what happens to our spirits.  It's helped alot.  And Logan's message to me has always stuck with me.  She even predicted we'd have 2 more children, and she definitely saw a little girl.  I am no pregnant with a little girl.  Let us know how it goes!  *hugs*
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  • Johnny's June- what did she say happens with the spirits? I don't really understand how they communicate with the medium. I probably won't go myself because I got the message I needed to hear but I'm curious about how it all works. 

     LuckE- I do remember your story!! It's amazing how determined they are to send us their message!  

    Heather hah-I know they have traveling mediums who tour around different places. My friend also got some messages from her mom when she went to a psychic.

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  • Nutty, spirits are merely energy. It's hard to grasp, but basically a spirit can take any form they want (have you ever seen "What Dreams May Come" wth Robin Williams? It's similar to that - a good watch and a different take on heaven and spirits than the typical church teachings). For example, apparently my Logan's spirit was visiting the medium weeks before he was born early. It's believed that the spirits of babies can come and go while in the womb. They're not bound to their human body until birthed. This was hard for me to understand so I kind of skipped that part. Regardless, when Logan visited her he appeared as a small boy around 5 or 6 but well spoken, much wiser than his visible "age", if that makes sense. The medium explained that spirits are not bound to one place and that they still have a purpose (a job or a destiny). We all have something to learn, discover, or figure out. Depending on what that is and whether it gets accomplished determines where we go or what we do next. This is wherr the belie of guardian angels comes in to play. Regarding my healing/grief and how it affects Logan -- she said that we are human. We have to grieve...to work through it, to learn things, to tap into our own spirits. It's usually when people are faced with loss and death that our eyes are open to that energy, that spirits can and do exist. They are not ghost. They are more of a "feeling" when they're around because they're energy. But if the person grieving remains in a negative state then the spirit being grieved can be "held back" or burdened almost. Spirits can get tired too. They stick around their loved ones to ensure healing and that they're ok... Only then can they be free to fulfill they're destiny/job im the spirit world. This doesn't mean you should rush or force your healing. It's all part of the process and it's ok. Spirits are outside of time. But they always come and go, energy can be in one place or several places. Everyone believes differently. But after talking to her and having a very conservative/religious background, I feel it makes sense. It's hard to grasp, and I still struggle with it somedays, but I believe with all my heart that I can "feel" when Logan is actually around. And I believe no matter where I am or where he is that he hears me when I talk to him. The medium explained that the whole "always a part of each other" is true. He has his own spirit but it was connected to my spirit long before conception. He was always meant to be mine (or rather part of me and DH). Hope that helps! Feel free to PM me. I'm not an expert but I find that talking about and askng questions helps me better understand or figure it all out. ***forgive typing errors- bumping from iPhone***
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  • Johnnysjune, I really really like that. I'm not sure if I believe all of it... but I want to. It sounds beautiful.
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  • I have a co-worker who is psychic.  He did a reading on me and was really accurate. He said that gabriel comes around me a lot and when he's around I smell flowers.  He said that gabriel wasn't supposed to come to earth so soon (he rushed it?) but that he'd come back to us. He said I'd be obvivously pregnant in the fall... Like, people will be able to tell at that point.  He said a lot more about me and Derrick and our lives but that was all he said about Gabriel. 

     My sister in law had a reading with Gary Spivey.  This was before we knew about Gabriel coming.  He told her that someone close to her would experience great loss and that she would experience loss too.  But didn't go any further into it than that. We kinda think he was talking about Gabriel.

     I wish I could talk to a medium, that would be amazing to hear what they have to say.  I take all this stuff in stride. Hear it, think about it, but until something is proven right - I am cautious about it.

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  • johnny's june - I wanted to say thank you for taking the time to write that all out. I've read it a few times and am still trying to process. :) It is very similar to what my good friend explained to me after she went to a psychic. I love the idea of my babies being close by and always being a part of me. I also did hear that they take on whatever age would have been their happiest, so that makes sense too. It's so difficult because I still have so many questions about Max and Molly that will most likely go unanswered. Anyway, thanks again.
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  • Thats is truly awesome :)
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  • Now that I've read this all, I too believe in energy & being connected. I know when my baby is close to me I can sense him. Its awesome to see that other people feel this way I was worried I was alone on this. Its like we have a connection that not even death can break. They are free to come & go as they please & I feel they will never leave us.
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    JohnnysJune~ that was really beautiful. thank you so much for writing it out.

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