TTC After a Loss

update on m/c (pg mentioned not me)

My doctor called me today at lunch and informed me that my levels are at 175 and he was expecting them to be down a lot lower because how faint the pregnancy test came back.  

Now I'm going to get blood drawn again tomorrow, to make sure that they are continuing to drop.   

I am now on day 19 of bleeding, its a lot less but defiantly still there .

Also, one of my best friends  called me we were talking about everything that was going on with me and she decided that would be the best time to tell me that shes expecting. AHHHH!! Really, I love her to death but why would she tell me now, she could have waited.  

That make my two best friends pregnant without me. I just keep thinking how great it would have been. I was due Aug. Best Friend #1 is due Sept. and now Best Friend #2 is due Dec.   

On a better note DH is the best, I was a mess and crying. I told him I hate my body right now and his response was thats okay Ill just love it more. It brought a slight smile to my sad face. I love him :)

Thanks for reading my vent 

Re: update on m/c (pg mentioned not me)

  • I'm sorry you're going through this, but I love your hubby's response.
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  • i'm so sorry you are going through this again!  Totally agree about your friend, really bad timing.  I would have had my baby by now with a bunch other ppl also, sucks to think of what could have been.  Your DH sounds really supportive and amazing, glad he is there to make you smile 
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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this! Love your hubby's response though.. it was perfect!
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  • Aww, I love what your husband said.  Helps a ton to have such a sweet hubby by your side!  Hugs!
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  • I'm so sorry you're going through this. But I'm glad your DH is such a sweetie! ((((HUGS))))
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  • I'm so sorry that you're still bleeding and that both of your friends are now pg. I know how hard it is to watch everyone else get the one thing you desire most. Sending you ((hugs)) and take care of yourself. It sounds like you've got a good support system in your DH.
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  • imagedelino:
    I'm sorry you're going through this, but I love your hubby's response.

    This. ((hugs)) 

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