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I'm sorry and I will "see" you all later (Not BFP)

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I just wanted to tell all of you wonderful ladies that I am so, so sorry I haven't been around much lately. Between school and work and getting the dogs certified as therapy dogs, things have been super crazy.  I think I am going to be taking a bit of a break. I have been exhausting myself thinking about the possibility of TTCAL anywhere in the near future. The place that DH and I are in right now just won't allow for it, and honestly, part of me is starting to wonder if I will ever be ready for it. I will absolutely be lurking around to check in on you all. I just don't think I have what it takes to be extremely active like I was.

To all of the new ladies here, I am so, so sorry that you have to be here, and I hope that you are able to move on to PGAL soon. To my oldies/friends, I ABSOLUTELY hope that as I am lurking I see every single one of you on PGAL! And to the ITB...I will definitely still be around headquarters when I can be! Big Smile

I love you ladies soooo much, and I hope nothing for the best for each and every one of you!

**HUGS TO ALL**

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Re: I'm sorry and I will "see" you all later (Not BFP)

  • kpowers982kpowers982 member
    <3 do whatever is best for you!  Take good care of yourself.  I'll miss seeing you post often though! 
    Cycle 7: BFP 1-17-12, Missed Miscarriage at 8w6d (measured 7w2d, no HB), D&C 2-29-12
    Cycle 9: BFP 5-3-12:EDD 1-24-13 It's a girl! Born 12-27-12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Image and video hosting by TinyPic
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  • buckeyebaby814buckeyebaby814 member
    Big ::HUGS::  I hope your time away gives you the opportunity to gain perspective on where you and YH want to go from here.

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    CFNBC after 8 losses and IF || History || My Angel Babies

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  • andreagbandreagb
    ((HUGS)) sometimes a break is necessary. We understand and we'll miss you. 
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  • sammer818sammer818 member
    *HUGS* You need to do what's best for you.

    TTC since April 2010
    BFP #1 – March 2011, missed m/c April 2011
    BFP #2 – October 2011, m/c November 2011
    Surprise BFP #3 – December 2011, diagnosed as cornual, terminated January 2012
    BFP #4 – June 2012, m/c July 2012
    Diagnosed with bicornuate ute and MTHR gene mutation
    BFP #5 – October 2012, missed m/c November 2012
    BFP #6 – January 2013, m/c March 2013
    No longer TTC. Diagnosis: Hostile ute. Heartbroken and bitter. Pursuing surrogacy.
    June 2013 - Carrier found! Could this really happen?!
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    ~All AL always welcome~

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  • ct103ct103 member

    I will miss you. We had our losses on the same day, 11/4/11. While it is very sad, I still felt a closeness to you over this.

    I COMPLETELY understand your need to step back and focus on other things. I wish you nothing but the best. Good luck with everything and know that we will be here for you whenever you need us.

    *Hugs* to you!

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  • raashtonraashton member

    You have to take care of number one first, daling!

    I am glad you aren't cutting out headquarters totally though!

     

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  • Allycat11Allycat11 member
    We will definitely miss you and I hope this time away is good for you. 
    11/2010 Diagnosed with PCOS 
    10/31/11 M/C at 9 weeks
    1/12/13 DD was born
    4/9/16 DS was born 
    9/17 CP 
    6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19 

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  • HopingforChangeHopingforChange member
    We all understand, but we will miss you.  GL to you and your DH as you find your way.  ((hugs))
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  • katharine25katharine25 member
    You will be  missed!
    Married My Love on 6/18/2006
    BFP#1 10/1/2011. Our perfect little girl, Her heart stopped @ 12w1d. D&E 11/23/11
    BFP#2 3/13/12 Weird CP/Possible EP @ 6w0d
    BFP#3 5/28/12 CP @ 5w0d
    BFP/WTF#4 10/26/12 CP
    BFP#5 12/10/12 EDD 8/23/2013
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  • Mom2anAngel2Mom2anAngel2 member
    I hope your break gives you some peace.  And GL training your dogs.  That is awesome that they will become therapy dogs!

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    Lilypie - (0YVF)
     TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)

    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

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  • behapy2daybehapy2day

    I understand having to take a step back from the bump sometimes. It seems to help when I feel like I am not coping well. Good luck!

    He's my fairytale, a dream when I'm not sleeping.

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  • EKGibsEKGibs member
    we'll miss you! I wish the best for you!
    TTC since 4/28/07
    Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
    BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
    Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.

    June '13 Decided to go the adoption route!

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  • minicheezburgminicheezburg member
    Hugs and I hope your time away serves you well. See you soon.
    Me(26)DH(33)
    TTC for #1 since Jan 2010
    BFP #1 Oct 1 2010 MC Oct 3 2010
    DX PCOS w/ AO Nov 2011
    3 rounds of Clomid all BFN
    BFP #2 10/12/12 Beta #1 45.1 Beta #2 160.7 * 2/27 diagnosed with IEF in utero.
    Dalaney born @ 35w2d via emergency C-section due to Pre-E after 30 hrs of labor & losing her HB twice. She weighed 5lbs 8oz & was 19in long on May 26th 2013 @ 605am

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  • QuigleyCat1QuigleyCat1 member

      I'm sorry everything's been so hectic for you and I hope it slows down a bit.  As for TTCAL, if you find yourself back here again I hope it is a very short stay!   And if not then I wish you the best in where ever life leads you.  You'll be missed!  ((HUGS))

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           We let him go to Heaven on 4-27-13 at 17 weeks 1 day***

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  • paisleybaby33paisleybaby33 member

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    Big ::HUGS::  I hope your time away gives you the opportunity to gain perspective on where you and YH want to go from here.

    Ditto this. ((HUGS))

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