I really should go no where near facebook when I am dealing with AF...
One friend posted pics of the diaper cake from her baby shower and another friend posted pics of her newborn dd..
I hate this I hate this I hate this I hate this I hate this I hate this I hate this
Re: It's just not fair...
Both of friends I mentioned ARE my age...which SHOULD give me hope but it just makes me more sad. The one who just had her baby is older than I am by a few months and she got pg on her honeymoon (2nd marriage) without even TRYING.
And I am totally there with you on the "friends commenting on a ultrasound pic". That seems to happen every day I swear my younger (by 14 yrs) sister has 500 friends who are ALL pg right now. I love facebook and I hate facebook.
Oh and to keep my pity party going.. the "Talk" show is on, which I never watch, but I had to because they are having a "Million dollar baby shower". All the audience members get to take home each and every amazing baby item.
TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
DE IVF #3 1/14 ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d
DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!
K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days
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I hear ya on that, I will say I do have friends on facebook that I know are KU and they aren't posting pictures or even making comments about the pregnancy, just sending private messages to close friends.. I think that's kind of cool..
Me 41 DH 46 Not actively ttc, surprise BFP on 1/6/11! 4/1/11 m/c our sunshine at 16wks after complications from CVS test. TTC #2 **5th cycle 12/6/11 BFP! Missed m/c at 9 weeks 1/21/12, trisomy 14. Two Chemical PG 3/12&7/12
** BFP 8/16/12 beta #1 148! beta#2 407 beta #3 4000 u/s 9.10 1 lovely hb 126, Baby Boy is due 04/28/13!!
Ouch. That stung a little bit. Sorry if I offended you.
I hadn't even thought of that until McIrish mentioned it-- I have no kids, either.
Last night, MH and I were watching a TV show (Eureka-- total science geek show made by Syfy) and it had a little robot that the kids had to care for (like a baby) for their parenting class. MH and I were all goo goo over the damn robot (that didn't look like a kid, but like a robot) because that's how ridiculously much we are feeling the parental instincts kick in.
There's no way it doesn't suck. I am just hoping I can be a little more considerate if/when I get a BFP. I'll post to FB but limit who gets to see those things...
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I'm sorry Llama. I know you've been trying for #2 for a very long time and that it is hard and you are sad. I was just pointing out what some seem to forget.
TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
DE IVF #3 1/14 ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d
DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!
K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days
SAIF/PAIF Welcome
http://waitingforraintostop.wordpress.com
One thing that helps me out a bit on facebook is turning off the comments of my friends so I don't see every time they post on someone else's sonogram, or baby pic. I can only take seeing that crap for so long. If you wanna do that then just hover over their name, clicks setting, and uncheck comments.
I was just happy this week that I finally got someone in billing at the hospital to talk to me about setting up a payment. I have to schedule my hsg, so they can open the account and I can start paying. We have to have 50% of it paid for before they will actually let me have the test and do payment plans for the rest. So even though I'll probably be scheduled to have it in the next week or so, I'll have to cancel the appt., pay them a couple of hundred bucks and then go back probably in a couple of months. So freaking dumb!!
When we first got married 15 years ago I was hoping for 3-4 babies, now if I can have just one I'll be more than happy.
I'm so sorry for us all going through this heartbreaking effort. My sister and best friend are pregnant; best friend got pregnant the first month she tried, with her third. Sister is 42!
I just stay away from facebook all together. I have an acount, I checkit periodically, upload pictures for my folks back home, but don't really bother with the rest of it.
Although I welcome the news about the success 40 somethings because right now any news is good news
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Breast Cancer diagnosis 12/01/2010 - Survivor and Cancer free as of 03/22/2011
BFP#1 04/12/2011 - fetal demise - MC 05/28/2011
BFP#2 10/14/2011 - fetal demise - MC 12/13/2011
BFP#3 05/30/2012 - fetal demise - MC 07/23/2012
IVF#1 02/14/2013 - 2 Beautiful Blasts transferred
BFP#4 02/25/2013 - BFP - MC and ectopic 03/06/2013
IFV#2 07/02/2013 -BFP#5 - 07/07/2013
1st Beta 07/11/2013 - 483 (9dp5dt) - 2nd Beta 07/13/2013 1006 (11dp5dt)
1st U/S 07/31/2013 - TWINS! "The Minions"
IVF#3 BFP#6 09/01/2015 6dp5dt
1st Beta 09/05/2015 - 105 - 2nd Beta 09/08/2015 335
1st U/S 09/22/2015 - .......
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I'm sorry Llama. I know how badly you want your LO to have a sibling. Maybe you should just steer clear of FB for a while.
On another note, I may have missed your post, but did you DH ever consent to and give his sample for SA? If yes, how were the results? I am still stalking your chart from afar and praying for you to get your BFP very soon. ((HUGS))
Thanks for your support from afar!
At our last conversation, dh said he was "thinking about it" and wanted credit for at least doing that. ha ha.
I have mentioned it (not directly) a few times since AF arrived 5 days ago. The other night he suggested that we just keep one of my daycare kids (he really has a soft spot for one in particular) and I knew at the time he was trying to keep the conversation light because to be honest I have been a whirlwind of emotions over the last week. It took 3 days just to NOT cry if my mind drifted away from day to day tasks. And if the subject of having (or not having) a baby came up--good grief I was a MESS, so I can't really blame the guy for avoiding the conversation this week. My hope is to have a SERIOUS conversation soon. I asked him to bring home some info on our insurance deductibles so I can get a real idea of what OOP costs we would have. THAT might be a deal breaker..
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Sending cyber hugs Llama.