Anyone else dealing with this? Lately, when we have to put DD in a time out (she's 3.5), she kicks and screams at the top of her lungs. So loud in fact that she's actually set off our security alarm (glass break sensors, so loud noises set it off). It's so hard to not get upset myself when she does this, but I do my best to ignore it until she can calm down. Then we talk about why she was mad and that it's ok to be mad and that there are better ways to express our feelings. But then it happens all over again. She's listened reasonably well up until this point, but I feel like she's so blatantly defiant right now and there are so many things that cause a struggle. Any suggestions?