At my routine OB appointment today I found out I had a missed miscarriage. I should have be almost 11 weeks. The baby stopped growing at 6 weeks. I'm still in shock. I have to go in for a D&C tomorrow. I feel spent and yet I have so many decisions to make being that I'm 41 (42 next month). I don't have time to waste. I wish this didn't have to be like this.

TTC 10/11. IUI 2/12. BFP 3/8/12. 4/26/12 missed mc. RE consult 5/17/12. IVF #1 ER 7/13/12 53R, 41M ICSIed, 32F, 8 5d, 6 6d blasts - all PGD/frozen. PGD results 1 normal M and 1 normal F, 1 maybe M. FET 9/6, transferred 1 F embie. Beta 9/15 BFN. FET#2 planned for 11/2012 put off until 2013. Surprise BFP 11/21/12!! My son was born on 7/24/13!
FET 4/28/2015 - Transferred 1 M embie. 5/6/15 BFP!
Re: Missed MC
4 Losses (2003, 2008, Apr 2012, & Oct 2012)
All RPL and IF testing with multiple REs = normal
5 IUIs = BFN
All AL are welcome

I'm so very sorry for this. I found out on the 13th, at my first prenatal appointment, when I should have been right at 9 weeks, that the baby was only measuring at 6 weeks. I started spotting that night and miscarried on the 17th. It's a horrible experience. I wish you all the best, just know you're not alone and we're here for you if you need us. Oh, and I'm 35, so I understand having that feeling of time catching up with you.
Missing our little turkey.
Estimated Due Date 11/13/12 | Natural Miscarriage 4/17/12