Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

Missed MC

At my routine OB appointment today I found out I had a missed miscarriage.  I should have be almost 11 weeks.  The baby stopped growing at 6 weeks.  I'm still in shock.  I have to go in for a D&C tomorrow.  I feel spent and yet I have so many decisions to make being that I'm 41 (42 next month).  I don't have time to waste.  I wish this didn't have to be like this.  
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TTC 10/11. IUI 2/12. BFP 3/8/12. 4/26/12 missed mc. RE consult 5/17/12. IVF #1 ER 7/13/12 53R, 41M ICSIed, 32F, 8 5d, 6 6d blasts - all PGD/frozen. PGD results 1 normal M and 1 normal F, 1 maybe M. FET 9/6, transferred 1 F embie. Beta 9/15 BFN. FET#2 planned for 11/2012 put off until 2013. Surprise BFP 11/21/12!! My son was born on 7/24/13!

FET 4/28/2015 - Transferred 1 M embie. 5/6/15 BFP!

Re: Missed MC

  • I'm so sorry for your loss. We found out at 9 weeks and the baby was only measuring 6 wk also. I wished I had known sooner too. Sitting in waiting room now for d and c. Best wishes to you. 
    BFP #4 11/21/12 - EDD 8/2/12 BFP#3 Missed m/c 9 wk 3 days. D & c 4/27/12. :( BFP #2 8/10/09 - DD Born April 2010 BFP #1 Suspected Ectopic 4/09 - Methotrexate
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  • so sorry for your loss. My last 2 pregnancies were missed m/c as well. Just not fair. thoughts and prayers are with you

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  • imageemikat:
    At my routine OB appointment today I found out I had a missed miscarriage.  I should have be almost 11 weeks.  The baby stopped growing at 6 weeks.  I'm still in shock.  I have to go in for a D&C tomorrow.  I feel spent and yet I have so many decisions to make being that I'm 41 (42 next month).  I don't have time to waste.  I wish this didn't have to be like this.  

    I'm so very sorry for this.  I found out on the 13th, at my first prenatal appointment, when I should have been right at 9 weeks, that the baby was only measuring at 6 weeks.  I started spotting that night and miscarried on the 17th.  It's a horrible experience.  I wish you all the best, just know you're not alone and we're here for you if you need us.  Oh, and I'm 35, so I understand having that feeling of time catching up with you.


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  • So sorry for your loss, my last two we're missed mc, one being just yesterday.  It feels so unfair, I'm 37 and I feel the same as you, but really want to have success, but then I feel scared...I hope you find peace as you heal your mind, body & heart.
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