Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
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I was doing well, but...
elplocho
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My husband told me his bf's sister is pregnant.
Oh and we're invited to her puke-aliscious baby shower.
Sorry for being caddy, but the girl used to hit (jokingly I guess) on my husband. Also my husband's bf knows I had the m/c, and maybe I'm crazy but it seems kind of mean to invite us. Like hey your uterus is a graveyard come celebrate our perfectly healthy almost here baby.
also this woman requested a soul train at my wedding reception. I may still be carrying a grudge. (joking)
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Re: I was doing well, but...
I hate showers. I haven't been to a baby shower since my loss 2 and half years ago. Honestly, I'm not sure I even want a shower when/if I ever have a baby make it to that point.
(((hugs))) Most people just don't realize how hard baby showers are for someone who lost a baby. Don't feel guilty if you don't want to go!
[spoiler] My Blog: Grow Baby Grow
BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010
BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)
3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!
Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500
First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat
LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!
TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015
Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015
Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270
First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.
JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.
TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]