TTC After a Loss

When Will it Stop?! (c/p mentioned)

I dont even know where to start with how I am feeling emotionally after my doctors appointment yesterday. I dont think I can really take it in at the moment that I am having had another m/c. I went and got blood drawn this morning, so I just have to wait to speak to the doctor to see exactly whats going on. 

However, I was just wondering, for the ladies that have been through a chemical pregnancy how long did the bleeding last? i have been bleeding now for 17 days, not super heavy or anything. But I just want it to stop already. With my first m/c I went for a D&C and the bleeding only lasted 2 -3 days.   

Thanks in advance for any input you may have.. 

Re: When Will it Stop?! (c/p mentioned)

  • I'm sorry this is happening to you. It's just not fair. 

    My bleeding lasted about the same as a normal period. If I hadn't known I was pregnant or af was late, I probably wouldn't have noticed the differences. 

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  • I don't have much advice to offer you, just wanted you to know that I understand what you are going through. I have been spotting/light bleeding/passing clots/some combination of all three since the first part of March; with only a few days of nothing in between. It is exhausting and super frustrating and makes me want to scream. I want to not wear pads and wear my cute panties again! But, at this point I just keep crossing my fingers and praying that this is nearing the end. My hope is that this ends very, very soon for you. So sorry for your losses. ((hugs)) to you!
  • I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. 

    I had a natural m/c and bled for about 2.5 weeks, and also had a c/p where I bled for about 10 days.  Hope the bleeding stops for you soon! 

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.

     

    My bleeding lasted about the same length as a normal period.  It was pretty typical as well.  The only difference was how it started.  Usually AF begins with a little blood.  With my CP, it started with large clots and tons of blood.  

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  • I dont have any advice for you, but I wanted to tell you that I am sorry that you have to be going through this. ((HUGS))
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  • My experience has been so different from everything Im hearing. Im really confused by the whole situation. Hopefully when I talk to the doctor tomorrow we can figure out what exactly is going on. 
  • ((hugs))  I'm so sorry you are going through another loss.  I bleed for about a week after each of my c/p's.
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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this.  I bled for about five days with some spotting afterwards, varying heaviness from day to day.  Honestly, it was never that heavy, but there were a lot of clots and one giant rubbery piece of tissue about the size of a silver dollar. 
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  • Im so sorry your going through this

    With my clinical cp I had 4 days of AF, then increased hcg's with accompanied spotting everyday for 6 days, then a confirmed biological loss and 4 days of AF. All told, about 2 weeks. 

    Everyone is different, and not all losses are cookie cutter. 

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  • I didn't have a cp but wanted to offer you ((( hugs))) and I'm sorry you are having to go through this.
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  • With my chemicals the bleeding lasted about as long as my typical AF. I definitely think bleeding that long warrants a visit to your doctor. I am sorry you're dealing with this on top of your loss. 
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  • I am a little late reading this but just wanted to let you know that mine was nothing like a regular period either, I bled for about 2 weeks and then spotted after that. I hope your doctor can give you some better advice, just wanted you to know that you are not the only one that did not follow the rules of cp. I was also told to expect a "normal period" but it was anything but normal! Hope it ends for you soon.
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