I was going through my mail tonight to find an invitation to my babies funeral. I had no idea the hospital did this (I never read the pamphlet they gave me on loss do it may be in there) but I was totally caught off guard by this. It's been 8 weeks as of yesterday and this was a reminder I didn't need. Now I get to be sad tonight. Dumb hospital.
Re: Got an invitation
I'm sorry that happened to you. I hate when one thing changes the entire outlook of the day. Hugs.
That is interesting though. I've often wondered what happened to my baby. I wonder if that's common for hospitals to do. I really doubt it.
BPF 1. Baby Girl "Petri" 12/22/11 Said goodbye 12/27/11
BPF 2. Baby Boy "Roo" 1/20/12 Heartbeat 160b/m 2/15/12 Said goodbye 2/20/12
BPF 3. Rainbow Baby Boy "Creed" 4/28/12 Born healthy and alive 1/5/13
BFP 4. "Rainbow 2.0" 8/17/14 due 4/28/15
"Darling don't be afraid. I have loved you a thousand years. I love you a thousand more."
I am surprised that you weren't given the option. I had an ectopic and didn't think to ask before but I guess now I know. Thanks for the support. Its been a rough night for me.
TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)
BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d
BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13
BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks
BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby