TTC After a Loss

Got an invitation

I was going through my mail tonight to find an invitation to my babies funeral. I had no idea the hospital did this (I never read the pamphlet they gave me on loss do it may be in there) but I was totally caught off guard by this. It's been 8 weeks as of yesterday and this was a reminder I didn't need. Now I get to be sad tonight. Dumb hospital. 

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Re: Got an invitation

  • I'm sorry that happened to you. I hate when one thing changes the entire outlook of the day. Hugs.

    That is interesting though. I've often wondered what happened to my baby. I wonder if that's common for hospitals to do. I really doubt it.

    BPF 1. Baby Girl "Petri" 12/22/11 Said goodbye 12/27/11

    BPF 2. Baby Boy "Roo" 1/20/12 Heartbeat 160b/m 2/15/12 Said goodbye 2/20/12

    BPF 3. Rainbow Baby Boy "Creed"  4/28/12 Born healthy and alive 1/5/13

    BFP 4. "Rainbow 2.0" 8/17/14 due 4/28/15

     

    "Darling don't be afraid. I have loved you a thousand years. I love you a thousand more."

     

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  • :-( I'm sorry hun. That totally sucks {{hugs}}
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    I'm sorry that happened to you. I hate when one thing changes the entire outlook of the day. Hugs.

    That is interesting though. I've often wondered what happened to my baby. I wonder if that's common for hospitals to do. I really doubt it.

    Me, too. Apparently where I delivered, 15 weeks is too early for them to release the baby to you, not even given as an option.

    OP, I'm so sorry you were hit with this today. HUGS!

     

    I am surprised that you weren't given the option. I had an ectopic and didn't think to ask before but I guess now I know. Thanks for the support. Its been a rough night for me. :( 

     

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  • I am so sorry that you had to have that reminder.  I have never heard of a hospital doing such a thing.  ((HUGS))

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie - (B9PH)

     

    Lilypie - (0YVF)
     TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)

    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

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