DD?

august06mom

Did that post about the batshitcrazy, yet perfectly lovely, MIL get DD'd?

EastCoastBride

I think you are correct!  Interesting.

Ms5586

Missed it!  Recap?

cristiana

You missed her last post that she made before she deleted. She posted that she was leaving this board and taking her toys with her since no one here is helpful, that she talked to a professional in a Very Important Field that agreed that keeping her kids away from her MIL would be earth shattering and devastating to her kid. It's terrible that nobody loves their parents after getting married since half of us will end up getting divorced and come running back to mommy and daddy, and watch out since our kids will stop loving us too. And we are really the crap parents, not her. It really was lovely and unintentionally hilarious.

EastCoastBride

cristiana:

You missed her last post that she made before she deleted. She posted that she was leaving this board and taking her toys with her since no one here is helpful, that she talked to a professional in a Very Important Field that agreed that keeping her kids away from her MIL would be earth shattering and devastating to her kid. It's terrible that nobody loves their parents after getting married since half of us will end up getting divorced and come running back to mommy and daddy, and watch out since our kids will stop loving us too. And we are really the crap parents, not her. It really was lovely and unintentionally hilarious.

Oh, that's awesome. 

EastCoastBride

Ms5586:

Missed it!  Recap?

She wanted to know if people were in her situation.  SHe hates her MIL, her MIL is a horrible person.  Her MIL sent her a horrid letter about what a bad person she is,  She will never forgive her MIL.  Blah blah blah.

People mention that maybe not having a lot of contact w/ her MIL might be a good idea.  SHe needs to think about what the impact of a person like this will have on her kids.  Her kids shouldn't see someone treat their mother so rudely. She says something about not wanting to be the cause of a rift between her DH and his mom.  We point out that it wouldn't be her causing the rift - it would be her MIL.

Wow- we're harsh. We'd cut FAMILY out of our lives??   And then from there it turned into how her MIL is a good mom and grandmother.  She's just a horrible MIL. And then a whole bunch of martyr stuff about how she would NEVER come between her DH and mother, and how she IS a good grandmother. 

As someone pointed out- her MIL is brilliant.  She comes here talking about what a horrid woman her MIL is, and by the end, she was defending her MIL and how she would never EVER cut her MIL out of her life.  You know- FOR THE KIDS!!!!!!

And clearly she didn't like to hear that. 

Ms5586

EastCoastBride:

Ms5586:

Missed it!  Recap?

She wanted to know if people were in her situation.  SHe hates her MIL, her MIL is a horrible person.  Her MIL sent her a horrid letter about what a bad person she is,  She will never forgive her MIL.  Blah blah blah.

People mention that maybe not having a lot of contact w/ her MIL might be a good idea.  SHe needs to think about what the impact of a person like this will have on her kids.  Her kids shouldn't see someone treat their mother so rudely. She says something about not wanting to be the cause of a rift between her DH and his mom.  We point out that it wouldn't be her causing the rift - it would be her MIL.

Wow- we're harsh. We'd cut FAMILY out of our lives??   And then from there it turned into how her MIL is a good mom and grandmother.  She's just a horrible MIL. And then a whole bunch of martyr stuff about how she would NEVER come between her DH and mother, and how she IS a good grandmother. 

As someone pointed out- her MIL is brilliant.  She comes here talking about what a horrid woman her MIL is, and by the end, she was defending her MIL and how she would never EVER cut her MIL out of her life.  You know- FOR THE KIDS!!!!!!

And clearly she didn't like to hear that. 

I think the whiplash of that cray cray made my head hurt.