I really like Jay as a nn for a future son, but I'm not sure what I would use as a fn. I don't want to just use Jay as the first name. The only ones I can think of are James, Jason, or Jayden right now. James is my jerky grandfather's middle name, so I don't think I would want to use that; Jayden is a trendy mess to me; and although I like Jason I think it sounds a bit too dated.
Any other ideas? Would prefer a name that started with the Jay- sound, rather than just starting with the letter J (for example, Jeremy).
Re: What else could Jay be short for?
I was going to say John, but you said you'd like it to have the actual "Jay" sound.
Like pp said, Jay can be a stand-alone first name.
I also know a Jerrold who goes by Jay, but that doesn't rhyme how you want.
I don't think it is dated either.
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I agree, I think Jason sounds dated too - like a 1970-1980 name
Unfortunately I don't have a suggestion for another name - sorry
and agree that Jayden is trendy and just awful
These are the two I was going to suggest.
Thanks...I know, it is hard! Maybe I will rethink Jay as a standalone name. I was just thinking if he introduces himself that way, people might think it was just the letter J- but am probably overthinking.
Knowing my husband though, when I suggest it as a first name he will then immediately suggest Zee as the middle name.
Love James and Jameson! And yes, you could just do Jay. We did Jake, not Jacob, just Jake.
Not a fan of Jayden...way too many boys and girls named that.
I like Jason...it definitely should make a comeback!
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My cousin's name is Johnathon but everyone calls him Jay...
James is nice and classic.
I have a good friend named Jaymie, whom we call Jay.
My BIL is a Jason, but we call him Jay too.
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