CS hearing tomorrow...I can't stand the suspense

dmndsr4eva

I am sitting here at my desk and the suspense is killing me.  Ex was supposed to send all his financial docs 5 days before the hearing but we just got them this morning.  Good news is he got a raise since we broke up. 

I am so nervous because I don't know if he is going to try to contest the current visitation schedule.  I don't think he can now because the hearing is only for cs.  But if this doesn't go his way I feel like that could be motivation for him to push for more time.  Which makes me want to negotiate with him but his expectations are so low.  He wants to pay me only about 30% of what the court worksheet states.

Also I spoke to him on the phone yesterday and he seems very blindsided by the cs calculations.  Which makes me so baffled.  How could you have a lawyer for 8 months and still be surprised by the standard cs calculations.  I swear he lives with his head in the sand.  He told me that I am asking for cs only because I am "punishing him for not loving me."  This man drives me insane.

FutureMrsWittig

He's just trying to piss you off by saying that.  Tell him you wouldn't punish him for that, because you're better off without him.

dmndsr4eva

Does anyone know for cs hearings how long it would take for the judge to make a ruling?

dmndsr4eva

Yeah I realize now talking to him just makes me more upset.  Sadly we are no where near the point where we can play nice.  He pick up DS this morning and he was so ANGRY.  He told me that he is selling his house and his truck so he can pay me child support.  I don't believe him because he tends to be dramatic and lie about things.  Not looking forward to court it's in a few hours. 

J&A2008

I hope it goes well!  Sorry he's such a pain to deal with.