TTC After a Loss

Updated - Request for T&P, surgery today....

Update -- I am back home from surgery and relaxing on the cozy couch. Surgery went really well. They were able to removed the lodged stone, removed all the stones from my left kidney and even gave MH pictures of the stones and the inside of my kidney and ureter! The nurse who took care of prior to surgery was exceptionally kind and understanding and had the anesthesiologist get me anxiety meds ASAP. I also usually get very nauseated from the anesthesia, but remembered to tell them this ahead of time and they were able to give me 3 different kinds of anti-nausea medications that helped me wake up feeling so much better. I am still in a significant amount of pain (even after a morpheine shot, Percocet, and 2 other kinds of pain meds I dont remember the name of), but I am hoping that this pain will subside in the coming days. My throat kills from being intubated, but such is life when it comes to surgery like this.  I think the staff felt most sorry for me when my doctor told them I would be back next week for round #2. Mostly, it meant so much to me to be able to read all of your well wishes and encouragement right before going in to surgery. Having this type of support is so wonderful and I cannot thank each and every one of you enough. I feel so blessed to have all of you behind me cheering me on! Now I'm off to rest and have MH rub my feet and watch some movies :-) 

I feel terrible for being so MIA lately. I know I have missed out on so much and so many new ladies joining the board....I have been lurking a little and feel like I don't know so many of you (I hate that anyone new has to join at all). 

I also want to thank anyone who responded to my post on Sunday night about how to cope with friends who are moms. Your responses did not go unnoticed and I thank you for all your support, suggestions and kind words. I was feeling pretty sick Sunday night and zonked out from the pain meds pretty quickly. 

Today is surgery #1 for my kidney stones. I am really nervous and could use any spare thoughts, prayers or good vibes sent my way. I get super anxious right before they take me into surgery and hate waking up from the anesthesia, they are my biggest points of dislike. Surgery #2 is tentatively scheduled for a week from today. Anything good you can send my way would be so appreciated!

Mad love to all of you!! 

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Re: Updated - Request for T&P, surgery today....

  • Good luck with your surgeries! I'm sure they will go swimmingly Big Smile

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    BFP #1 – March 2011, missed m/c April 2011
    BFP #2 – October 2011, m/c November 2011
    Surprise BFP #3 – December 2011, diagnosed as cornual, terminated January 2012
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    BFP #5 – October 2012, missed m/c November 2012
    BFP #6 – January 2013, m/c March 2013
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  • I hope everything goes well sweets! ((((hugs))))
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  • Sending lots of good surgery vibes!
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    FET#2 7/16/12 - 2 blasts = BFN
    FET#3 8/20/12 - 1 blast - BFP!! Beta #1-2=177, 354
    1st u/s 5w6d, one beautiful little HB :), 2nd u/s 146bpm
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  • Good Luck :)

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  • Lots of thoughts and prayers going your way dear!!

    FX that everything goes really well!

  • T&P's for a speedy recovery!

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     TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)

    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

  • Good luck. I hope everything goes well and that you start feeling better very soon!
  • Sending hugs and prayers for you!

     

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  • Good luck today! Many T&Ps to you that all goes well and with minimal anxiety. ((hugs))
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  • Thinking of you and hope it all goes well.
    BFP #1, 12/22/09 - DD#1 born 9/2010
    BFP #2, 12/12/11, m/c 12/25/11
    BFP #3, 3/09/12, CP 3/10/12
    BFP #4, 7/22/12, DD#2 born 4/2013
     

  • My prayers are with you today.  Hold on to the truth of your siggy scripture.

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  • T's, P's & good vibes coming your way!
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    Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.

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  • Many T&Ps.

    BFP #1 11/27/11 EDD 08/08/12 M/C 01/27/12 12 wks 2 days
    BFP #2 04/25/12 EDD 01/04/13(?) confirmed ectopic 05/16/12 6 wks 5 days 2 doses of MTX-Lost left tube on 05/25/12 Back to TTC, earlier than originally expected.
    BFP #3 01/05/13 EDD 09/17/13 u/s 1/24/13-great appt, measuring 2 days ahead, NT scan 3/11/13-great scan measuring 4 days ahead, A/S 4/29/13-another great scan can't wait to meet my baby BOY!!!!!
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  • good luck with all your procedures!
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  • Good luck today. I will be thinking of you!
    BFP #1 10/6/11 | EDD 6/15/12 | MMC 11/7/11 @ 8w3d | D&C 11/14/11

    BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13

    BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15

    BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d

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  • You know I'm thinking of you, sweet lady!
    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
  • Sending you all the good vibes, thoughts and prayers I can come up with!  You take care of YOU!  ((HUGS))
    After 22 months TTC and the loss of our identical twins at 10w6d, we're excited about our rainbow baby!
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  • Lots of good thoughts headed your way!!
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    BFP #2: 8/31/12 EDD: 5/18/13 Chemical pregnancy: 9/4/12
    BFP #3:  5/17/13  EDD: 1/24/14 Loss at 5 weeks: 5/29/13

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  • Good luck! I'm sure everything with go wonderfully.
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  • Good luck with your surgery. I hope all goes well.
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  • Thinking about you today, M., and I hope it all goes really well for you!

    I know you're nervous, but you'll be fine, and it will all be over soon.

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    We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.

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  • sending lots of prayers your way..
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  • Good luck today!!!
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  • You will be close to my heart!  I hope that you get positive results right away!
  • I hope it goes well!
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  • I am so glad things went well!  Rest up...you deserve to put your feet up!

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     TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)

    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

  • I'm so glad everything went well today! I hope your pain subsides soon--and that surgery #2 is here before you know it, so you can put this crap behind you! ((hugs))
    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
  • I am so glad to hear everything went well! Feel better and I hope the pain subsides quickly. Thinking of you!
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  • So glad to hear things went well and esp. that you didn't have to have the awful nausea on top of everything else. Hope recovery goes quickly for you and next week gets here and done with soon!
    BFP #1, 12/22/09 - DD#1 born 9/2010
    BFP #2, 12/12/11, m/c 12/25/11
    BFP #3, 3/09/12, CP 3/10/12
    BFP #4, 7/22/12, DD#2 born 4/2013
     

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